I think I may have posted something similar in another thread, but since misery loves company, I shall reiterate....
I like Disney, but I'm a roller coaster/traditional amusement park fanatic. Among my fellow coaster geeks, men outnumber the ladies by a wide margin, thus creating much the same situation for us. I feel much the same as you "DIS chicks" do--I really feel as though I need to be with someone who "gets it" and can share in my enjoyment of roller coasters (my dream is to be married on a roller coaster and I don't think there are many women who aren't into the hobby who would be willing to do that).
I always thought that if we could get our two groups together, it could make for a lot of interesting matches. For me, I don't think it would be a stretch to imagine that I could become more of a Disney fanatic if I found someone interested/willing to attend my annual Coaster Convention and go to Knoebels a few times a year.
Of course, if the coasters, Tower of Terror, and Mission: Space are your least favorite things at Disney, you don't have much hope of matching well with me (or other coaster geeks). Otherwise, we're out here and worth looking into.
All that said, for me personally, my life is too chaotic to pursue a relationship with anyone right now, but I always welcome new friends.
-Jason