DH has been there, Sam. It is hard, not going to lie, it is very hard. However, when he was pre-diabetic he made some changes, his blood work got a bit better and he started pushing that proverbial envelope. Well, he became a diabetic. I mentioned upthread that his blood sugar is now well maintained, his A1C 5.5. That being said, it was a lot of trial and error. He always had an evening snack and tried to find something that was decent. He would try having some unsalted nuts, or unsalted and unbuttered popcorn. Nothing really hit the mark and now he has dinner and doesn’t have a snack. He finds he doesn’t need it bad enough.
He did see a diabetic dietician and that wasn’t perfect, it helped but he had to still tweak things to work for him. She was great to give some suggestions, some worked, some did not.
Cardiovascular issues run in DH’s family and DH has high BP. His cardiologist said that the diabetic diet comes first and foremost. However, the cardio diet needs to go hand in hand. He’s had to make major changes within the last few years as he wound up needing triple bypass. As I said, cardiovascular issues run in his family, however, diabetes and heart disease are common as diabetes can cause, or exacerbate heart disease.
I am all in with this for my DH. We are a team and it is certainly healthier for me, too. Does he miss some foods? Absolutely! He hasn’t had a real egg since his bypass and he loves eggs on a weekend. He has egg beaters or egg whites. We reserve the real “cheats” for holidays or birthday celebrations. We had pizza for the first time in 3 years this past Saturday. For Fathers Day, our son and daugher in law took us to the Jersey shore. We walked the boards, had pizza and ice cream. First time for real ice cream since his bypass. But Sunday he was back on track.
I think that the first step is to realize that yes, you are now a diabetic. If you are on medicine, you can get off of it but you will always be classified as a diabetic. At least that is what DH was told. Once you can get comfortable with the fact that you are diabetic, start making some changes. It’s going to be a lifetime change…not a “diet”.
DS was told that he needed to go on a plant based diet. That knocked him for a loop but he is determined to do it and get bloodwork under control. Heart disease runs in the family and his blood work was a bit off. Normally, the doctor may not have been as pro active for a 28 year old but with family history…
DH said that his eating has now become second nature. Does he slip up? yes. As a matter of fact, we were out to lunch the other day and a pickle was served on the plate, he took a bite. Pickles raise your BP and is not on his “approved” list.
Diabetes can take a toll on so many other organs that it needs to be addressed and taken seriously.
Good luck.