Just got back from my trip and
LOVED the Fantasmic balcony experience. (Actually went
twice!) We had little round tables for our plates and drinks -- but yes, the chairs were quite close together. You are a good distance from the performance, but also a good distance from the crowd -- and I am not comfortable around crowds, so I was very happy about that. The first time I sat on the front corner of the balcony; the second time on the back corner. The view from the back was somewhat obstructed by a pole at times, but certainly was far better than what I could have hoped for from the ground (unless I'd been willing to stake out a position far in advance of the show). I also could have moved and stood behind the folks seated at their tables for a better view if I'd wanted to.
Ultimately it was exactly what I had expected based on the posts here on the Disboards -- the desserts, cheeses, fruit kabobs, etc. were quite good (but not worth the $59, including tax, on their own). For me, what did make it worthwhile was the uniqueness of the experience -- especially because this is likely to be my only trip to
Disneyland. If our entire family of 5 would have been going, I probably wouldn't have considered it good value for money, but as a special treat for myself, I found it very enjoyable.
Thanks for all the good information, folks!