wgeo
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- May 2, 2011
I've been married for 18 years, it's not easy every single day or every single minute, but overall I would say that's it is not difficult but it takes time and energy. We've had a couple of bad days/weeks over the years but usually things are good. He wants to do things that are nice for me, I want to do things that are nice for him and it all balances out in the end. And I would say that our bad days tend to be due to external influences like extreme job stress. So I always say that a marriage takes work, but at the same time it shouldn't really be that hard.