mombrontrent
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- Mar 8, 2008
A couple years ago I started a similar thread, same situation, same kid. I was contemplating leaving ds who was 15 at the time home while we went to Disney. In the end he came and we had a good trip, I made him come to the smoky mountains this past spring as well.
My DH wants to take one more trip to Disney while our youngest dd can still enjoy it from a child's perspective. She will be 10 and our other dd is 14. We are going to Disney in January for a week and my son who is 17 now has decided he doesn't need to go to Disney again. He has been 3 times as well as numerous other vacations and has opted to stay home this time. We have agreed for several reasons. For one we are going when he would miss a week of school and he's in his final year of high school. He will be here to watch our dog. He will have a vehicle and we will leave him money.
I do have some concerns, we will be out of the country (Canadians) and our closest family is 2+ hours away. I don't have much confidence in him actually going to all his classes as he struggles with that on a daily basis. I worry about him driving in the winter as he has only had his license for a year. I told him he wasn't allowed anyone in the house other then his girlfriend who will be a month away from 18. I don't care if she wants to stay here with him but when he asked if he could have other friends over I said no. I hope he follows this rule but you never know. I know I'll come home to somewhat of a mess but I don't want my house trashed.
Now I know he's 17 and quite cabable of staying home for a week and my DH was reluctant because he is scared he'll throw a party or something but we are going to trust him and have a good vacation. We will be able to contact anythime through text. Anything else I should think of?
My DH wants to take one more trip to Disney while our youngest dd can still enjoy it from a child's perspective. She will be 10 and our other dd is 14. We are going to Disney in January for a week and my son who is 17 now has decided he doesn't need to go to Disney again. He has been 3 times as well as numerous other vacations and has opted to stay home this time. We have agreed for several reasons. For one we are going when he would miss a week of school and he's in his final year of high school. He will be here to watch our dog. He will have a vehicle and we will leave him money.
I do have some concerns, we will be out of the country (Canadians) and our closest family is 2+ hours away. I don't have much confidence in him actually going to all his classes as he struggles with that on a daily basis. I worry about him driving in the winter as he has only had his license for a year. I told him he wasn't allowed anyone in the house other then his girlfriend who will be a month away from 18. I don't care if she wants to stay here with him but when he asked if he could have other friends over I said no. I hope he follows this rule but you never know. I know I'll come home to somewhat of a mess but I don't want my house trashed.
Now I know he's 17 and quite cabable of staying home for a week and my DH was reluctant because he is scared he'll throw a party or something but we are going to trust him and have a good vacation. We will be able to contact anythime through text. Anything else I should think of?