mom2rtk
Invented the term "Characterpalooza"
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- Aug 23, 2008
And I will once again say, if I couldn't trust my child with money, I certainly wouldn't trust him with my house.
Yeah. That was my point when I brought it up earlier.
And I will once again say, if I couldn't trust my child with money, I certainly wouldn't trust him with my house.
Yeah the sad thing is I'm the only one in the house that knows how to use the dishwasher, even my dh has never touched it. DS does actually know how to use the washer and dryer (dh does not) and has been doing all his own laundry since she 13. That's not to say he doesn't wait several weeks until he was nothing clean to wear and does severe loads at once or that he goes far to long in between washing his sheets but he does do it.Glad it worked out for you, OP'er. I don't think he did anything overly unusual for that age; sleeping, eating junk food, making a mess, skipping a couple classes, however, I think it is strange that a 17 y/o truly has no clue how to turn on the dishwasher! I'm going to assume that also means he wouldn't know how to turn on the washer and dryer? You may want to teach him how to use those things (and by teach, I mean show him and then actually make him do it).
Glad it worked out for you, OP'er. I don't think he did anything overly unusual for that age; sleeping, eating junk food, making a mess, skipping a couple classes, however, I think it is strange that a 17 y/o truly has no clue how to turn on the dishwasher! I'm going to assume that also means he wouldn't know how to turn on the washer and dryer? You may want to teach him how to use those things (and by teach, I mean show him and then actually make him do it).
Funny that is exactly what DS did he pressed the delay start button and couldn't figure out why it wasn't starting!This reminds me of when dh and I went away and left our 18 and 16 year old home. My dd couldn't figure out how to use the dishwasher because the delay button had been pressed. She did know how to turn it on normally but I never showed her anything beyond that. Lesson learned LOL.
Oh, and he didn't have a keg party nor did he sleep around.
How can you be sure?
My husband knows exactly how to use the dishwasher but man his loading skils could be improved. I ended up so frustrated that I've taken on that chore probably 90%-95% of the time.Yeah the sad thing is I'm the only one in the house that knows how to use the dishwasher, even my dh has never touched it. DS does actually know how to use the washer and dryer (dh does not) and has been doing all his own laundry since she 13. That's not to say he doesn't wait several weeks until he was nothing clean to wear and does severe loads at once or that he goes far to long in between washing his sheets but he does do it.
Some kids just don't have it in their DNA.
That is my son. He is very focused on school. He wants to be an engineer and he keeps his eye on the ball.Fair point!
After I wrote that, I actually thought of my daughter. I don't think she has it in her DNA, either. She's still living at home, going steady with Science, and finds boys to be nothing but an annoying distraction from her studies. And she hates the taste of alcohol. I'm just grateful she has a couple actual friends (even if they're all also equally intense about the whole Science thing).
She wouldn't enjoy a keg party, much less throw one.
That is my son. He is very focused on school. He wants to be an engineer and he keeps his eye on the ball.
He has been invited to parties like that. He doesn't go. He just isn't interested.
That is my son. He is very focused on school. He wants to be an engineer and he keeps his eye on the ball.
He has been invited to parties like that. He doesn't go. He just isn't interested.
It's like the toilet paper..it somehow magically appears in the bathrooms when it's getting low...and the towels oh my somehow they get washed and ready to go
Some kids just don't have it in their DNA.
I love that video. Everytime I see it I just laugh harder. And yes I find it to be quite accurate myself.Have a watch of the Magic table, its hilarious (and quite accurate)
Somehow mine and dh's DNA totally didn't make it into my dd and my oldest ds LOL. We are constantly surprised at how different they are from us when it comes to partying at that age.
My youngest definitely has our DNA, and we are going to be in for it when he hits the later teen years
Have a watch of the Magic table, its hilarious (and quite accurate)
That is my son. He is very focused on school. He wants to be an engineer and he keeps his eye on the ball.
He has been invited to parties like that. He doesn't go. He just isn't interested.