I need some honest help with finding a job now...

Of course now I have no way to pay it off to clear it up.
Bottom of second paragraph.

I'm just saying, that's usually what happened in the past. And the reason why I can't pull it again for another couple of months. So I honestly don't remember what's sitting on there right now. I probably still have the print out some where, but not easily accessable. After I would pay off what I could, I usually try to shred it.

You said you were going to wait unit you cleared things up before putting in Apps.

You needed a job yesterday. You need to put in Apps tomorrow morning. Waiting to pay off debt before applying for a job when you have not job will mean you will never apply for a job.

How long did Kari give you to get a job and pay half of the bills?
 
No... not debt clear up. I'm not counting on that. Maybe when I get an inheratence...
I was referring to something else.

And I don't really know what Kari wants because she flip flops all the time. She wants to take over the finances but still asks me to take care of things. She wants my bank card back, but she hands it back so I can do stuff for her.

If I was to get a good enough job some where, and didn't need to live with her. I have a 401k that I could cash out. It's not that much, but it would be enough for a starter. But as it is, it really wouldn't do me any good to cash it out at the moment.
 
Going back to school is out of the question... I really suck at classroom setting. I started hating school like in 5 grade. And I probably can't tell you a single thing that I learned there.
My computer skills come from my own learning.

School doesn't have to be a classroom. If you're interested in building towards self employment, you might want to look for trades apprenticeships--I've known a few people who were good at "on the job" learning, but, not classroom learning who were able to get paid while learning and finished with terrific skills. (I.e. many plumbers are essentially self-employed.)

Really? Strange that never occurred with my officers in my family -- the training has always been provided by the force hired by.

Hmmn...Provincial differences? I'm talking based on the officers who come in annually to talk to my teens about what they need to do to become police officers. They've all indicated significant training once hired, but, they've also said that they wouldn't have even gotten an interview without first completing at least the 2-year Police Foundations program.

If I can't be myself here on the boards, where can I be myself?

Plus that might be slightly akward... getting a job through a message board about Disney.

I agree with both sides of this discussion. You should be able to be yourself here. But, there are likely to be people who talk on these boards who might have available jobs and while it might seem like a strange way to get a job, I got my first professional job because my boyfriend at the time messaged a random stranger on irc who lived in my area to ask how I could get on irc there. (Note: obviously back in the day before internet access was rampant.) The stranger asked some questions and then said, "I'm hiring next week and she sounds like a candidate, send her over." It was a terrific job and I loved working there.

Plus, there is something to getting in the habit of being positive. If it becomes second nature to be, speak and act positively, then, that's what the world sees and that helps with all kinds of things from getting a job, to getting along with management, etc. I can be very negative at times, but, I have a reputation for spinning EVERYTHING as a positive. I don't always do it here, but, it's enough of a habit that I shock people at work whenever they hear me down.

For example, another way of spinning the Disney ending would be to say that it was a valuable learning experience as to how important it is to be quality team player in terms of reliability and attitude.

The other thing I'd add is that if you're only filling out online forms, there are probably jobs you're missing in your hunt.

Good Luck!
 
You said you were going to wait unit you cleared things up before putting in Apps.

You needed a job yesterday. You need to put in Apps tomorrow morning. Waiting to pay off debt before applying for a job when you have not job will mean you will never apply for a job.

How long did Kari give you to get a job and pay half of the bills?

These comments are constructive, supportive and helpful how?

Sandra, go online and look at any number of resumes. Find one that you like best and write your's to match it.

Do no include the college classes you took. The only that counts about college/uni is getting a degree, so until you do, don't list the classes.

List the jobs by category, and list the skills that you needed to perform those categories of jobs. Use a year for the employment period, not the month, day, etc.

If online applications don't work for you, then apply at places that will still accept hard copies.

It's not easy getting a job, or keeping one, but you have to start somewhere, so do just that. Start anywhere and learn with each attempt.

Take care now and try not to let negativity get in your way (whether your own, or someone else's).
 
I'm not avoiding paper apps, and I'm not trying to exclude online apps. Most of them are basically the same. Personal info, school info, work history... and unlike a resume, I can't just clump together all my retail stuff into catagory. And even if I did apply for jobs that required a resume first, I'd still have to fill out an app where my prior work history would come to light with dates and manager's names.

When it comes to doing that, do I just omit jobs like home depot, the temp agency, or party city??

Reliatex, Gamestop, Disney where about the only jobs that had a significant learning experience, that I gained something more from that just a paycheck.
Reliatex, I was the office gopher. My aunt actually taught me every position, so when she would work saturday's by herself, she could have me sit at a desk to catch up on that work (usually if some one took a vacation). The final thing I did there, and declined to do full time was the consignment inventory. I had to keep track of all the rolls, if they were going out to other companies, purchased by us, and about every other month, go out there and count all the rolls.

Gamestop was my first retail. I learned the whole register, pushing extra items (bah stupid reservations and subscriptions). I became more comfortable talking on the phone. I still had to keep up with stock (checking in shipments) and keeping things clean. I'm very OCD about the shelves being stocked, which can sometimes become time consuming, but the store always looked neat and clean.

Disney was just an overall kick in butt reality check. Yeah I let the worst of me get to me at the end. But sticking to it for 2years was tough. I learned how to deal with managers, I learned how to deal with guests who you really couldn't help without giving them a million dollars and chaufer them in a golden carriage. I learned how to provide high customer service. And as a bonus I learned a lot about cameras. Most of it was just hands on and listening to other's talk. But I can deal with almost any camera out there now. (as long as it's free handed... studio cameras are a bit more complicated).

Home Depot was nice too for learning about plants. I got hired at the start of spring, so I got to go to lots of training classes at different stores, nurseries, even Scotts testing grounds. I even did enough PK classes online to become a garden specialist, and I was also elected to one of like 3 lawn care specialists (to deal with mowers and stuff), but that sorta went over my head. I liked the plants outside.

My ideal job, probably just delivering pizzas. I love being behind the wheel, I don't get lost easily (and I don't use a GPS), and I'd make tips off of it. Most of the work seems to be done solely, and it's not like I'd have a manager sitting in the passenger seat all the time. But yeah, I'd think they'd look a little more closely at my driving record. Again young and stupid I have a few things on there. The two most recent was a speeding ticket (under 9mph over the limit), and the other was making an illegal left turn (it was at night and I didn't notice any signs that said not to, at an intersection they decided to forbid it at like 2 nights prior). I think things drop off after like 3 or 5 years... so hopefully they can't dig that stuff up. But a car usually helps with getting a job like that.
 
I just saw another post by you on the Budget Board. Is there any chance your aunt can help you get a job at Cracker Barrel?:confused3
 
Not really. I can list that I was refered by her, but she's out in Texas and I'm here. There's only that store in the Dallas area, and well it would be very very akward working next to her. Plus I'm not going to move out to Dallas.
 
Most large businesses will only confirm dates of employment, pay, position/title, and if the termination was voluntary or involuntary.

You are overthinking the resume thing...KEEP IT SIMPLE!

Game Stop - November 2002-March 2003 - Sales Rep
Home Depot - May 2003-December 2003 - Sales Associate
Walt Diseny World - April 2004-September 2004 - Photopass


Thats all you have to do, mention the name of the employer, the dates worked, and the position you had. Dont bother with names and telephone numbers, it wont help you at all. Even if your new employer were to contact your old boss at Disney, your old boss would only direct them to the HR department to confirm your dates.....

Organize by dates worked, most recent to oldest. Get this done tonight, print it off, get up early tomorrow morning, and hit the pavement!
 
Take an ink pen with you. I would never hire anyone who was not at least that prepared. Make sure you look nice. Nice pants and blouse, nice shoes. Maybe this does not "float your boat" but maybe even a little blush or lip gloss, simple jewelry, clean hands and fingernails. If you have tattoos...cover them.

Try all the fast food places too. If you are available to work any kind of hours that will help. There is nothing wrong with working at a food place and you can learn valuable tools for future employment.

Most of all you have to learn to get along with others and especially management. Even though you have had many of those problems in the past you can use those as a learning experience and tell prospective employers that you have learned by past mistakes.

Don't depend on spell check for all of the spelling errors. Spell check will not catch the words that are spelled correctly but used in the wrong way. Examples are your,you're....to, two, too... and so on.

I congratulate you on at least getting started with this. There is a job out there for everybody. Not everyone loves their job and not everyone loves going to work but we do it because we have to and we have responsibilities to take care of.

Good Luck and do not give up.
 
So should I fill out my apps like this?

Job 1
Reliatex (1997-2004) part time/summer job

School (2004-2005)

Job 2
Home Depot (02/06-05/06) Full time. Left to go work for Disney.

Job 3
Disney (06/06-08/09) Full time. Left for family reasons. Which is sorta true... I have spent quite a deal of time driving my mom to Miami and back to spend time with my brother. I've been flying out to Dallas to help my aunt out.

Homemaker (08/09-current).

I'm not sure if it is just a typo, but you've put in 2 posts now.

You said earlier that you hadn't worked in over a year, but now are saying you were at WDW until August of 2009. This is easily verified, so not something your can fudge.
 
Take the first job that you get and then keep looking. It is easier to have get a job when you have a job.
 
If you want my heartfelt honest advice you need to show up at the Community College tomorrow and apply for some financial aid and spend the next couple of semesters obtaining some job skills. Mechanic, medical assistant, dental technician ..... this whole "well if I work 15 to 20 hours a week at a minimum wage job I'll be able to feed myself" is nothing except settling for a desperately poor life of poverty.

And yes we know. You don't like school. Honey, lots of people don't like school. Most of us like money though and it is pretty hard to get that without suffering through the job training part. Get over it.

Heck, I bet you can even find a Work Study job at that Community College once they process your aid package.
 
sorry, it should've been 09/08, sept 2008.

I know the basics of hitting the pavement. I dress nice (I always get comments on my nails because I can grow them out...), I always keep a good pen on me (my handwriting is legiable), there's no tattooes for covering up (plus it's jacket weather), and I try to smile a lot. Ohh and eye contact.

I just really need to figure out how to fill out my previous employment section, because that seems to be the only thing wrong. It would be great to put a little asterick and say "yeah, I've had problems in the past, but I've learned from my mistakes". You don't get any of those opprotunities to do that until an interview. It seems very few stores where managers that work out on the floor are the same ones that do the hiring, so you don't even get to talk to the person that accepts your application.
When I was standing on the other side (it happened a lot at Gamestop), it was kind of funny how people tried to impress me when they turned in an app. I knew we weren't hiring, and wouldn't be for a long time. On top of that, I had no decision making power in who's app was actually reviewed. I just always picture the person I'm handing my app to, as no one that has any saying in the HR area and all my effort is for nothing.

Unfortantly living in the heart of tourist town, every one I know works for the mouse. A few friends along the way have worked at the other parks too, but no connection to HR.

Simple question, should I omit jobs I feel are irrelavent? Should I mention them if in an interview, and asked about the employment gap??

When I did my interview for Disney, she focused more on my willingness to learn, and my passion for Disney. I had no prior experience for what I was applying for, the past seemed a bit irrelevant. Plus I was all giddy and excited about being in the Casting building.
 
It seems my followers have found me... only took a day. I knew I should've created a new screen name for this topic.


I practically failed out of high school. Passed basic computer, new testament history, and brit lit (harry potter and lord of the rings). I can't learn in a classroom setting. It doesn't do me any good. So going back to school is not an option. Plus I live too far away from the college campus.

And yeah, 20hrs a week might be poverty, but at least it's not homeless. Baby steps, that is what this is about. Plus considering most retail places have probably laid off the holiday help, and kept on a few worthwhile people... pickings are extremely slim. I highly doubt there's many full time positions available, and something is better than nothing. Even at part time, my butt is there and I can put in for full time when the opprotunity comes along.
 
Hi SandrA9810.

I have to agree with Rita on preparing for a future, coasting by isn't all that, I know a lot of friends like that. (this is a "honest" thread, right?)

Just throwing something out there, based on all you have written is this thread, how about something like insurance claims? You can be out in the field investigating claims, use your proficiency (and being able to figure things out) with computers by entering details, etc... I don't know what it takes to do that, but it could be a fit?


As for looking at prospective jobs, I know you can make some BANK doing census work. That could be a short term option, making upwards of $16/hr, if I recall...

I am looking at the Monster.com listings for Orlando (ignoring the pyramid scheme/sales ones :rolleyes:) and I see the following:

http://jobview.monster.com/Office-Administrator-Job-Orlando-FL-US-85038186.aspx

http://jobview.monster.com/Data-Entry-Representatives-Job-Orlando-FL-US-85038228.aspx

http://jobview.monster.com/Parking-Attendant-Job-Orlando-FL-US-85169684.aspx

Anyways... hope some of this helps and good luck in whatever you decide!
 
I'm not avoiding paper apps, and I'm not trying to exclude online apps. Most of them are basically the same. Personal info, school info, work history... and unlike a resume, I can't just clump together all my retail stuff into catagory. And even if I did apply for jobs that required a resume first, I'd still have to fill out an app where my prior work history would come to light with dates and manager's names.

When I applied for jobs I ALWAYS attached a resume, even when I applied to scoop ice cream on a form that I filled out on the spot. Believe me, the preparedness stands out. (If one person receives your application and passes it to another person to file, the fact that there's an attached resume -- you may need to acquire a pocket stapler -- may cause the 2nd person to pause and read it.)

Remember, adding a resume gives you an opportunity to reorganize the same information that you're trying to put on the form and worrying that it doesn't fit the blanks properly.

When it comes to doing that, do I just omit jobs like home depot, the temp agency, or party city??

I think it depends a lot on what kind of job you're trying to get. If you are applying for a Loew's or golf course maintenance job, include Home Depot because you learned relevant skills there. If you are applying for a retail job, include home depot and party city. If you are applying for a secretarial job, include the temp agency (and possibly list longer-term temp contracts separately if they apply). If you're applying for a photography position, then, you might as well drop these three jobs as irrelevant.

Reliatex, Gamestop, Disney where about the only jobs that had a significant learning experience, that I gained something more from that just a paycheck.
Reliatex, I was the office gopher. My aunt actually taught me every position, so when she would work saturday's by herself, she could have me sit at a desk to catch up on that work (usually if some one took a vacation). The final thing I did there, and declined to do full time was the consignment inventory. I had to keep track of all the rolls, if they were going out to other companies, purchased by us, and about every other month, go out there and count all the rolls.

Gamestop was my first retail. I learned the whole register, pushing extra items (bah stupid reservations and subscriptions). I became more comfortable talking on the phone. I still had to keep up with stock (checking in shipments) and keeping things clean. I'm very OCD about the shelves being stocked, which can sometimes become time consuming, but the store always looked neat and clean.

Disney was just an overall kick in butt reality check. Yeah I let the worst of me get to me at the end. But sticking to it for 2years was tough. I learned how to deal with managers, I learned how to deal with guests who you really couldn't help without giving them a million dollars and chaufer them in a golden carriage. I learned how to provide high customer service. And as a bonus I learned a lot about cameras. Most of it was just hands on and listening to other's talk. But I can deal with almost any camera out there now. (as long as it's free handed... studio cameras are a bit more complicated).

Home Depot was nice too for learning about plants. I got hired at the start of spring, so I got to go to lots of training classes at different stores, nurseries, even Scotts testing grounds. I even did enough PK classes online to become a garden specialist, and I was also elected to one of like 3 lawn care specialists (to deal with mowers and stuff), but that sorta went over my head. I liked the plants outside.

The way you're starting to phrase things here is much better than before. I know that you are currently worried about getting TO the interview, but, thinking about what you'll say during the interview is equally important. I twice happened to walk in with an application as a manager was entering a store and I ended up with an on-the-spot interview. (In one case, I walked out with a job.) These moments are pure luck, but, you don't want to miss one if it's available.

My ideal job, probably just delivering pizzas. I love being behind the wheel, ...

Since you don't want to do temp work because you cannot guarantee having a car, you probably shouldn't look at other jobs that require a vehicle at this point. Plus, if you have anything on your driving record, you'll need to stay away from these jobs until it clears.

Most large businesses will only confirm dates of employment, pay, position/title, and if the termination was voluntary or involuntary.

You are overthinking the resume thing...KEEP IT SIMPLE!

Game Stop - November 2002-March 2003 - Sales Rep
Home Depot - May 2003-December 2003 - Sales Associate
Walt Diseny World - April 2004-September 2004 - Photopass


Thats all you have to do, mention the name of the employer, the dates worked, and the position you had. Dont bother with names and telephone numbers, it wont help you at all. Even if your new employer were to contact your old boss at Disney, your old boss would only direct them to the HR department to confirm your dates.....

Organize by dates worked, most recent to oldest. Get this done tonight, print it off, get up early tomorrow morning, and hit the pavement!

Agreed! (Although I'd correct the spelling of Disney :rolleyes1 before using it.)

It seems very few stores where managers that work out on the floor are the same ones that do the hiring, so you don't even get to talk to the person that accepts your application.
When I was standing on the other side (it happened a lot at Gamestop), it was kind of funny how people tried to impress me when they turned in an app. I knew we weren't hiring, and wouldn't be for a long time. On top of that, I had no decision making power in who's app was actually reviewed. I just always picture the person I'm handing my app to, as no one that has any saying in the HR area and all my effort is for nothing.

Despite your experience of people trying to impress you when you had no power, I'd recommend you revisit this perception and view everyone as someone to impress. Although it is usually true that you're handing an application to a person without power, you never know what the reality of the current situation might be.

Sometimes an owner is working in their own store. Sometimes management listens to staff opinions -- I frequently influenced management decisions about new-hires before I was a manager. Etc.

Plus, the person you hand an application to is someone you're hoping to work with and getting along well will be important then. So, be assertive and give it a try.

Simple question, should I omit jobs I feel are irrelavent? Should I mention them if in an interview, and asked about the employment gap??

Unfortunately, I don't consider the answer simple. I think that it really depends on the job in question.
 
I practically failed out of high school. Passed basic computer, new testament history, and brit lit (harry potter and lord of the rings). I can't learn in a classroom setting. It doesn't do me any good. So going back to school is not an option. Plus I live too far away from the college campus.

Seriously, I've worked with people who "practically failed out of high school" who were able to be very successful in some apprenticeship programs. Don't rule out all school-like programs just because you've had bad experiences in the past.

I can understand not wanting to start there given your previous experiences, but, keep it in mind. Keep looking for entry-level work now because anything can be a good beginning. But, don't sell yourself short, keep thinking about where you might want to end up and fill out some online career aptitude forms.

(If it weren't for some really stupid policies, I'd recommend joining the Armed Forces since I've known several people who didn't know what to do with themselves who enlisted and used their initial commitment as a jumping off point to a greatly improved sense of self and level of skills.)
 
It seems my followers have found me... only took a day. I knew I should've created a new screen name for this topic.


It really would not take much time to figure out it was you if you tried using a new screen name!!! LOL!! You have posted so much about not wanting to work, getting dumped, etc., it would not be easy to hide..... Just sayin'!!

You always come across as being so negative about everything. You need to put the PAST in the past and keep it there and look forward to doing positive things. Don't walk in to places with the defeated attitude you have already given on here. Yes..maybe you can just find part time but look for full time. Or get 2 part time jobs. When I was your age I had 3 jobs at one time!!
The poster who mentioned about who you give the app. to is correct. Many times the person doing the hiring will ask what you looked like, what do they think, do they look promising or do they look like file it in the trash can.

I agree with attaching a resume. It looks more professional and it shows that you are more serious than just walking down the street and applying at each and every place.

And I am trying to be honest here...and I am not trying to be ugly...please get a grip on your attitude. It is really kind of sad that anyone can be so down on themselves as much as you are. Prospective employers see that and most do not want those sad defeated attitudes. If you need to talk to a pastor (there are religions that accept your lifestyle) or a counselor then look into that.

Get away from your current living situation as soon as possible. Stand up on your own two legs and depend on no one. And yes there are lots of us who have given you a hard time about past comments but I think we ALL would like to see you pick yourself up and get a job and be dependent on YOURSELF and not anyone else.

You have been given some great advice on here. PLEASE do yourself a favor and follow all this good advice. Get some sleep and work on positive thoughts.
 
I could have sworn you had a son, or maybe I'm mistaken. Can you support a son on a part-time job? I think you should aim for a full-time job, definitley.

When writing your résumé (some of this might have been mentioned, but I have not read through all the responses) here are some tips (I interview canidates/help make hiring decissions at my workplace and see resumes from students by the thousands every August):

*Don't lie about dates! This is crucial. Usually a company will call old employers to verify date and job title, but we frequently don't ask - nor do we care - about the reason for termination (admittedly, we hire mostly students coming straight out of school, so its frequently just internships and such).

*There is no need to write on the resume why you left, regardless of the reason. If it comes up in an interview, be honest, but you still must put a positive spin on the reason. Saying "I didn't get along with my manager" is not going to work.

*There likely isn't much harm in only listing 3-4 of your most recent jobs. You don't need to go into detail for every job.

*Add an "interests" section. The interests can be anything you like, even if they are obscure. Interests sections don't have to be skills, just things you like. Why? Because this totally takes the interview onto a tangent. I love when canidates write interests, because that is what I talk to them in the interview. Usually if you have an interview, you have the credinitals, it is all about personality. Among interests I have seen are "duty free shopping," "self-teaching new languages," and "military history." The best interviews have always been the ones that go on tangents.

Your résumé job listings should look like this:

[COMPANY and JOB TITLE] [DATES]
*[Skill learned #1]
*[Skill learned #2]
*[Skill learned #3]
 
I'm very good at being negative about all this... so I'll try to limit my responses. (I'm good at turning the tables to make it seem like I'm not the one in the wrong, even though it might be true).

True story. Have you tried approaching this from the perspective of what do I like to do, what type of job would I excel in, and what type of job do I have the skills/tools to do (e.g., a car is needed to deliver pizza)?
 

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