I got married at 23, and there are certainly some upsides with getting married young, and some huge downsides. I was the only person in my friend group to be married for MANY years. I was just finishing up my graduate degree, and had to go back to the lab Tuesday afternoon after getting married that Sunday.
We have been married 9 years now and have grown so much in that time, I can certainly see how some people who get married young could grow apart in that time. DH and I have very different interests and personalities, but have very similar backgrounds and core values, and I think that helps us to stay grounded with one another. I am very thankful that we are mostly on the same page regarding the 'big things', we have made a couple large moves for each of our jobs, so I know how incredibly lucky I am to have a partner who is willing to uproot his life and career when a great opportunity for my career has come up, and vice versa, as many of our family and friends are pretty stuck to staying in a particular area, and that wouldn't work for either of us.
I was totally that person who fell in love at first sight. I knew he was intelligent from what I heard about him from his fraternity brothers, but the minute I saw him I told my roommate that I was going to marry him, alcohol may have been involved
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