Umm.. ok wait... this is a surprise anniversary party for You and DH ?? and You are buying the food and doing shopping for it ?? Some surprise..
We are not paying for the food. Just picked it up. Family all down decorating all day. We will head down soon. DD forgot to remove DH from one of the email lists she sent a message out on so we found out about it. DH replied..."I don't think I was supposed to receive this" and then I called her and RSVP'd. Our surprise party has been a joke since then. Family and friends are coming from out of town though, so it should be fun.