Yes, that's exactly my situation. They could put us on flights out of BOS on different days, but that doesn't work with our DVC reservation or DH's job. We are roughly equidistant from both airports, but JFK is just more of a hassle to get to, and more expensive to park, so we paid more to fly out of BOS. It stings to pay EVEN MORE now to fly from JFK when the JFK flights were the cheaper option when we booked 9 days ago.I’m sorry you’re going through this. I see HA has reduced its BOS-HNL route to just Sunday and Wednesday. I’d expect they reaccomodate you to one of these flights for the points you paid. Of course, it sounds like your schedule is a lot more complicated than that. I hope you can figure something out.
I’m actually surprised HA is still cutting flights. Our flights to (on UA) and from (on HA) HNL last month were 100% packed.
They said they will not refund us any fare differences if the flight cost goes down. Our kids are young enough that sitting together is important, so I didn't want to wait and see if the fare goes down but potentially not be able to sit together. We sucked it up and paid. :-(