I think the song is awful and no amount of putting it in its proper historical context can stop my inner voice from screaming "Run, girl! You're in danger!" every time I hear it.
It's like the crows in Dumbo -- maybe they weren't the
worst thing happening on the racism front in the context of their era, but holy cow do they not play well for today's audience. Take all the coercion/date rape vibes away and you're left with a song that harkens back to a time where a woman didn't have the freedom to be in charge of her own sexuality and was instead expected live up to society's standards for her, lest she be branded a skank. That doesn't make me think "fun and flirty," it makes me think "Ugh, this gross song again... I'm changing the station."