My sister & I loved it - as we were watching it, we were both thinking, “I can’t wait until I can watch this again!”
I’ve read the criticisms about it being too ”woke”, &, while the movie does make a statement - actually lots of statements, neither she nor I really saw what the critics are claiming - and, just to be honest, this is coming from someone who leans conservative.
There is much in the movie about the patriarchy & the matriarchy - but there are observations & commentary on both sides, & it’s done in a gentle, humorous way. The juxtaposition of womanhood in Barbieland & womanhood in the real world was so well-done - ”Barbie has a great day every day, but Ken only has a great day if Barbie looks at him.”
(I do wish the different sides had come together just a little bit more/better in the end.)
Is it a movie for little girls? Probably not, because, while they’d love all the pink & all the wonderful Barbie sets, I don’t think they’d get any of the nuances & the very layered meanings.
And, for what it’s worth, I don’t think the movie was made for little girls - it’s not a kids’ movie. Kids can watch it, but I don’t think most of them are going to “get” the movie.
There are some totally ridiculous parts, & I thought some of the Will Ferrell parts went too long &, in the overall plot of the movie, didn’t always makes a lot of sense.
Ken & all the other Kens were awesome.
Ryan Gosling was perfection. And Margo Robbie was exquisite.
We laughed during so many different parts, & we also got teary in a few places as well.
A little bit of a spoiler - When Stereotypical Barbie realizes she had gone to the real world, not for the daughter, but for the mother, I cried.
I mean, I think the movie was really made for our generation of women. We played w/ Barbies more than our daughters ended up playing w/ Barbies… our daughters are the ones who were first told that Barbie was maybe problematic & grew up not seeing Barbie the same we did.
W/ my own daughter, she’s more interested in the Oppenheimer movie than the Barbie movie.
But our generation grew up w/ Barbie telling us we could be whoever we wanted to be - Astronaut Barbie, President Barbie, Doctor Barbie, Adventure Barbie, Teacher Barbie… and we played w/ our Barbies in lovely pink plastic dreamworlds, & we usually all played w/ lots of different Barbies & just a couple of Kens. Like the movie, Kens were secondary in our imaginative Barbie worlds. And then grew up & realized Barbie Dreamland wasn’t anywhere near reality.
“It is the best day ever. So was yesterday, & so is tomorrow, & every day from now until forever…”.
Until we grow up & realize it’s not.
And now we have our own daughters w/ whom we sometimes struggle in our relationships - us understanding our daughters & who they’re growing up to be & our daughters understanding us & who we were, are, & have become.
Just like the ghost of the Barbie creator said, “We stand still so our daughters can look back to see how far we’ve come.”
And, when the ghost of the Barbie creator took the hands of Stereotypical Barbie to show her “real life“ - all the messy, gorgeous, broken, happy, sad, triumph, tragedy, & exhilaration of real life - I cried. And one woman in our theatre openly sobbed.
“That’s life. It’s all change.”
”It’s terrifying.”
Oh, & America Ferrara’s monologue to stereotypical Barbie got a standing ovation in our theatre!
And, once we realize how things are - once we see the truth, we can’t be put back in our boxes. Loved that!
“It’s literally impossible to be a woman.”
In addition to the patriarchy/matriarchy themes, there was also a theme of discovering who you are - for both Barbie AND Ken… and not Barbie & Ken together but Barbie & Ken separately. We are enough.
“The world isn’t what I thought it was.”
“It never is.”
Soooo many different layers to the movie - even the sly asides from Helen Mirren as the narrator were perfect!
And, beyond all that, the movie is just FUN.
So much pink in our packed theatre - and so many women were dressed up in all kinds of Barbie-wear. Opening night was an event.
And, next time I see it, I’m dressing up as Weird Barbie!