As for the refurb, I fall into the don't-hate-it-but-don't-love-it camp, as well. While the old rooms were a bit dated, the throw-back theme worked for us. We felt all the rooms needed were some updated, but well-themed furniture. We stayed at Kidani a few years ago and thought that a similar approach to VWL would work wonders. Instead, they went for milquetoast and minimalism, neither vision fitting the grandeur of the Lodge. It appears as though Disney wants to appeal to the middle-of-the-road tastes in much of what they do anymore including refurbs. What made Disney special to me in the beginning was their derring-do, their ability to find the unique nature in a ride or attraction or resort.
There's a term that's been in use for a couple of decades now regarding society in general: dumbing down. Disney seems to be following that trend. Mass appeal was once based on demonstrating enough flair in a variety of ways; now the mass appeal skews to cookie-cutter, cost saving measures. Great for stockholders, not so much for nostalgia. Take Push, for example. A small pleasure to be sure, but one that made strolling Tomorrowland unique--he is no more and that makes me sad.
I do love Disney, but I wish they'd make more decisions with their hearts than their calculators, and that includes the refurb to the Lodge.