Amy, I am proud of you... stand fast and speak up. Remember they are making so much money on his treatment...it is actually scary. They want to treat him there and not have you go anywhere else.
I could write a book, I still may. I think it has been the kindness of strangers that gets me through... People here on the Dis that pray for us or reach out to me and in that group that I belong to, just people helping people.
I have to also say here my team at MGH... I thank God for them.. the oncologist, radiologist and our wonder Nurse Practitioner, I adore them and so does Tom.. I love our surgeon, he is on our team, whenever we need surgery, he is our guy... These people are busy important people at MGH and work with us all the time, it is the little people at MGH that you sometimes have problems with..
Did I tell you all when Tom was admitted to the hospital, it was his second morning, that I caught a nurse making fun of me in the Hall? I spoke with her as they had been giving Tom a hard time about wanting to move to another floor. If I already told this story, sorry. Anyway, no one ever changed his water from the day he came, so I was coming out of his room to get him fresh water, it was right after I spoke to her and she was standing in front of another nurse who was typing and doing hand gestures and I knew it was relating our conversation. The other nurse looked up and said something, she stopped immediately. She turned and looked at me, her face was beet red, and I just looked at her and said where can I get some fresh water for my husband... When she walked away, I turned to the typing nurse and said I would hope she was not making fun of the conversation I had with her in the privacy of my husband's room as that would not be professional.. As she came back with the water, I said to her.. calling her by name, I would hope you were not talking about our conversation in my husband's room... as that would be a violation of our privacy rights and unprofessional... she swore she was not... trust me she was..
The little people who do not make it nice for you and then there are some who go overboard....and are the little people too.... you just cannot figure it out.. I am grateful for any kindness that we receive, so grateful.