Thanks everyone for the responses. I really appreciate it.
I tried linking my military vouchers, but kept getting the msg that they are "not valid ticket media". Perhaps because they are the dramatically discounted 4 day hoppers?
I'm just going to call Disney today since I have two four day hoppers per person and one 10 day ticket since military is limited to 6 discounted tickets per year. After four park entries, then we can activate the second Hopper. They can't be both on the bands at the same time because the system won't know which ticket to use.
Complicated.
The ten day ticket is for my 5 yr old & is linked to her magic band. I can only make fast pass selections for her though. So, that doesn't work.
My young girls really want to hang out with their older cousins who do enjoy being with them. I think maybe planning a morning where the cousins, my girls & I go to MK together would be good. I agree it's going to be too hard to have us together all the time.
Maybe meet up at the pool or dinner or fireworks.
I do have the dinner & preferred viewing for Rivers of Light for all of us. I'd love to do that all together.
My brother & I are linked on
MDE & are sharing a MM. He sent me the code, but when I enter it, I get the msg that it's already used by another account. Does this mean I don't need to enter the code, or is this another question for my phone call today?
My hope is that once we get there, I'll be less stressed. I need to work on letting go & not getting frustrated when traveling with so many people. I just want to hang out with all of them and (sadly) maybe WDW isn't the place to do that.