Sherri....
If you don't mind my asking, how does one end up all the way in Montana from Ca?
Are there better jobs out there? In which case, can I rent a room from you.
Well here is the story...
We were living in Redlands Ca. Renting a home valued at 3/4 of a million dollars in a nice quiet friendly neighborhood. We both had good jobs I worked for a chiropracter doing books and Brant drove a big rig. Colton was a baby. We were happy there.
One day I was puttering in my rose garden while Colton was taking a nap. I heard a car backfire but thought nothing of it. Turns out it wasn't a backfire it was a gunshot. 2 rival gangs from San Bernadino had driven into our neighborhood shooting at each other. A stray bullet went through the wall of a home and hit a 2 year old girl napping in her bed and killed her.
Our world was absolutely shattered...how was I going to raise a little boy where it was not only unsafe for him to play in his backyard but wasn't safe sleeping in his own bed. I was afraid to drop him at the sitters in the morning, I was afraid to be in my yard...My roses all died of neglect.
My mother went to visit an old friend here in Malta, she came back glowing about the trip and said she would move there to retire if it didn't mean leaving us kids...Brant & I took our vacation to Malta and also fell in love. Mom & my family moved a few months later when her house sold. My brother joined us 2 years later and is now married to a local girl and has 2 kids, my sister arrived with her family last year.
This town is what I imagine America was once upon a time...this town is full of an assortment of kooks & characters that have become our family. Everyone and I mean everyone turns out for local events, If our football team is playing the stores close..everyone is at the game. I wouldn't trade this place or these people that welcomed us with open arms for anything. They all every one have a hand in the fact that Colton is who he is.
Are the jobs better? NO I make less than a third of what I made in California, but I simply don't need that kind of money here. We paid off our home last year it is ours we own it. With homes in CA as pricey as they are this would never have happened for us there. I have my horses, goats & chickens (nothing like fresh eggs in the morning) We have our boat and camp and fish and play all summer. There are only 14 kids in Colton's class at school vs 30+ in classes in Cali. This is what I wanted when I thought about how my son should grow up. I so regret that I didn't do it sooner when our 4 others were young I feel they were robbed of a great way of life.
Do I miss Cali? Yes esp in the middle of a winter like this one. I miss the beach, I miss my friends, I miss the family still there. But I am safe in my bed and so is my son. All is right with the world.