Barbruka thank you for your support! I have a little non disney related story to tell you guys...
When my 12 year old was about 2 I was in a group called Parents as Teachers. It was a group for mothers of children up to 3 years old. Now I grew up and still live in an afluent suberb outside of Columbus Ohio and some of the people here can get pretty uppity. I was sitting in a group of about 20 mothers discussing disapline and everyone was saying things like, "I just feel so mean when I make little Bobby go on time out," and "I had to take away Sally's favorite doll today because she kicked the dog", blah blah blah. Well being the person I am I couldn't help myself and I had to say, "Don't you people ever feel like your children have pushed you to the point where you are afraid to spank them because you don't know if you can stop??" The room got quiet and the woman running the meeting just smiled and said, "Now we get down to the truth." By the time we were done everyone in the meeting agreed that that is how we all feel sometimes and no one ever talks about it.
My point is that it is really easy to be what you aren't but no one says what they really are. Probably many many people who read these boards do tours or carry 3 year olds in the parks or say their children are 9 or under to get the child rate or eat off the childrens menu or maybe worse things I can't think of right now. I am not above doing timeshare tours for free tickets, carrying my child into Disney 2 months after his 3rd birthday and I was thinking of doing the
Disney cruise next year and saying my son who will be 13 when we cruise is still 12. I have never shoplifted in my life - not even a pack of gum as a child, I have trouble lying to people (If someone would have stopped me while I was carrying my son into disney I would have bought him a ticket because I really have a problem lying in a face to face situation. If a salesperson asked me if I was there for the free tickets I would have said yes.), I don't cheat on my taxes, I don't cheat on my husband and I don't drink and drive. What I'm trying to say is some people have done the things I won't do and I have done things others wouldn't. It doesn't matter really until people start throwing stones and find their own glass house has shattered.
welovemickey I am not directing this at you at all. I understand what you were saying and with the exception of what you said about explaining it to my children - I was not at all offended. You do have the right to your opinion and I respect that. You stated your opinion very well and your argument has merit. Not that you need me to tell you that... you already know. I just see things differently. You see it as a waste of the salesmans time and I see it as a payment for my time. No problem here. I'm sure there are things you have done that I wouldn't like. I think Barbruka was trying to show support for me and I appreciate that. I needed someone on my side after yesterday - lol.
Don't you guys just LOVE RobinB's picture????
Kerry