Well let me rephrase / you could be handicapped and go on space mountain , but not to the extent you would need a das .
I tried to be clear before, but I guess I need to explain further.
You do not get to decide who is "disabled enough" to get a DAS.
You do not get to decide who is "sick enough"or "bad enough" or any "enough" to qualify as a person with a disability.
You do not get to decide who is "worse" than someone else.
That is not a game we
ever play on this forum. Not only can you not tell everything about another person based on a few posts online, but you do not live in their bodies and lives.
You are not the only parent with a child with a disability on this forum. You are not the only person who has dealt with a disability on this forum.
There are many different forms and experiences of disability, and trying to create a scale, apparently based on the needs of your child, will not help anyone. I have a disability, I require a DAS card, and I ride Space Mountain every chance I get. I love Space Mountain, Big Thunder Mountain Railroad, Splash... and I love Winnie the Pooh and Monster's Inc.
My disability means I use a wheelchair, but that does not meet all my needs. I also have, for example, severe problems with heat, which makes living in SoCal all the more fun. This is one reason I use the DAS - many of the queues in DL/DCA would result in my passing out and spiking a fever. That does not mean I do not enjoy the ride - it means the way the queue is designed is dangerous for my disability.
My disability is different than your son's. I am largely independent and can go on some thrill rides sometimes. That does not mean I am "less" disabled than your son, or anyone else.
I do not discount your experiences at all, and you are right that Disney owes you nothing. But Disney is required to provide appropriate accommodations for disabilities as stated in the ADA - that is a right, not being owed.
In the future, please keep this in mind when posting on this forum. This is supposed to be a supportive environment, not a place where people feel judged. Please ask questions and provide any answers you may have from your own experiences, but please refrain from judging others, their needs, and their abilities.
This goes for anyone wishing to post in the disABILITIES forum.