Also, to answer your other question ronandannette, I'm still dealing with the bank issue. I'll be speaking to a lawyer shortly, the family lawyer who drew up our wills is going to refer me to someone who would be good with this particular situation and I'll go for a consultation. I seriously doubt we'll do anything further. I'm certain trying to go against a bank and insurance company would be a foolish endeavour. I will at least explore the option but doubt it will amount to anything. One curious thing, though, is the bank went silent. I had asked my dad to deal with it right from the start which, you're right, seems like a long time ago, but was actually only about four weeks ago. Initially, they said if it had been missed they'd be happy to reinstate it but could not back date it to September. Of course, that's the only way we'd have a hope. He has asked several times for a complete copy of all signed paperwork but they have yet to produce it. I've been wondering if someone there heard about DH's illness and they've just been waiting it out.
Also, to answer your other question ronandannette, I'm still dealing with the bank issue. I'll be speaking to a lawyer shortly, the family lawyer who drew up our wills is going to refer me to someone who would be good with this particular situation and I'll go for a consultation. I seriously doubt we'll do anything further. I'm certain trying to go against a bank and insurance company would be a foolish endeavour. I will at least explore the option but doubt it will amount to anything. One curious thing, though, is the bank went silent. I had asked my dad to deal with it right from the start which, you're right, seems like a long time ago, but was actually only about four weeks ago. Initially, they said if it had been missed they'd be happy to reinstate it but could not back date it to September. Of course, that's the only way we'd have a hope. He has asked several times for a complete copy of all signed paperwork but they have yet to produce it. I've been wondering if someone there heard about DH's illness and they've just been waiting it out.