Amy&Dan said:
If its only the crowds that bother him and not the loud noise I would suggest viewing the fireworks back by Its a Small World. There will still be crowds there, but nothing like the ones near the castle hub and on Main Street. They rope off the area near Small World as the fireworks draw near and Small World itself, along with many rides in Fantasyland will close. That sort of keeps people out of the area and the fact that you will miss Tinkerbelle's flight and some of the castle projections. If you sit right at the rope, there would be no people right in front of him and if you had the family members sit beside and behind him maybe that would make him more comfortable. In any case I would check with City Hall when you first arrive at the park to see what they can do for you and suggestions they might have.
Thanks so much!! We are unavoidably going during a pretty busy time, 3/28-3/31.
As you guessed, it's really not at all the sound at all (at least not for him), it is all the people jostling into him and bumping in to him and my experience is even when you stake out a spot really early, everyone crowds in around you. And, a pet peeve of my son's is when that happens people don't bother to apologize. So then, it's not only that he's getting jostled but that people are being RUDE! (The capitals there for his emphasis!) And, then not feeling like he can move or get away. For him, knowing all the ways "out" is a safety net for him. If he started feeling anxious it would be difficult for him to "get away".
The standing in line thing would certainly not be abused. (Though I know it's an issue in the parks.) And it's not that the being at DL would cause a meltdown in and of itself. But, after a day of lots of noise, lots of excitement, being outside of his routine (even good change is bad change!), his ability to regulate himself does get diminished. A break would help in an immediate situation, but not generally. Even if the accomodation was simply to allow one of us to stand in the line and then allow our son to wait with the other parent and "line jump" or meet us at the front might help remarkably!
I will definitely go in and talk with guest services, and in fact will call before I go. We all know that you can get different answers from different CM's depending upon alot. And, I'm happy to bring a note from my doctor, but I'm really rather hesitant to bring my son in to a non-medical CM after standing in the crazy throng of people to get in to guest services to then discuss in detail all my son's issues and shortcomings. Especially since he does very very well in one on one conversations with adults and you wouldn't probably "see" his diagnosis. We'll just have to see.
Once again, I'm sorry to hijack the thread. Hopefully the answers I've gotten and will get will help
Scooter advise their friend.
Scooter, the website is fairly useless on this issue, as far as I can tell. If you do a search for disability, it has a rather detailed brochure on mobility, auditory and visual disabilities, but nothing that falls outside those parameters.