I am in no way prone to anxiety. BUT this whole thing has me doing internal freak out. I have a mother with very compromised immune system and a mother in law who is slowly dying from a heart defect. I don't think either one would be able to live through this virus. I have been in AR with my mom and the nursing home to see what protocols are in place to protect her as this gets more wide spread. I brought her lots of wet wipes to wipe down her and her roommate tv remotes, Ipads, wheelchair handles, phones and anything else they are constantly touching all day. My mom made the comment yesterday that if she gets this virus she probably wouldn't live through it and all I could do is try to reassure her she won't get it and be pissed off that I can't protect her from this.
Gathering is a way of protecting to an extent. And things like water, cleaning products and TP is gathering when there is nothing else to do but wait and feel like the damn plague is coming across the universe.
I can relate to how you’re feeling 100%. My parents are in their 80s. My dad is healthy, but my mom has diabetes, stage 4 kidney failure and congestive heart failure. I Iive across the country from them. I’ve asked my dad to stock up on stuff and stop taking her to church. They are both super involved in their church, so I’m really afraid they won’t stop going until it is too late.
I’m also a school teacher. Some of my students have health issues: cystic fibrosis, asthma, diabetes. My boss is going through cancer treatments and is immunocompromised. My students are watching the news and are talking about Covid -19. They are starting to get anxious. And it hasn’t been addressed. I am frustrated with our school system because all we’ve been told is that they are “monitoring the situation”. There has been no talk at all about any sort of contingency plan. I’m a planner; it’s in my DNA, and it’s how I cope. This is driving me crazy. I’m part of the admin team at my school, and whenever I bring up contingency planning, they all laugh and tell me I’m over reacting. Really??? Harvard just closed, is requiring all their students to move out of the dorms by Sunday, and finish the semester online! I think we need a contingency plan too. Plan for the worst; hope and pray for the best - that’s my mantra.
My son works in a metro area with a growing number of cases. I’ve asked him to be careful - wash hands often, don’t touch his face or germy surfaces, clean his phone and computer and tv remotes often. He tells me I’m being Chicken Little. Maybe now that it’s in his community, he’ll take it a little more seriously. My DH doesn’t want to hear about it at all and gets mad when I mention it. I think it makes him feel worried and helpless. I get that, but planning for it makes me feel better and prepared. Ugh!
My DD is on her college Spring Break in Daytona Beach, FL. I don’t want to bug her with this because it may be the last bit of college fun she has for a while if her university follows the 50 or so schools who’ve decided to go to online classes for the time being. I did give her a lecture on hand washing and not touching her face before she left. She will be so unhappy if her school closes. Her boyfriend is graduating in May, and now I’m worried that his graduation ceremony will be cancelled too.
The other things that have me most on edge are:
the folks who won’t stay isolated after exposure or diagnosis,
that the USA wasted about a month before dealing with/testing for the virus,
the stories from doctors in Italy about having to choose who gets treatment and lives vs who doesn’t get treatment and dies (over 65 or younger with co-morbidities get no treatment because the hospitals are overwhelmed),
that people say it only really adversely affects people over 65 or 80 or whatever (percentage wise, yes, but the largest actual number of dead are 40-60.) I got this info from the link below.
Harvard saw this storm coming and held this pop up with the world’s leading experts.
I am grateful to the OP for starting this thread. It makes me feel better just to get this all off my chest.