PRINCESS Sweet Pea
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Sep 5, 2019
Hello del! I notice two things that you have said that might tell a lot. The first thing is how you just said like It hurts like hell. And yes It does! Of course it does! Sometimes things can hurt that much. So I am not gonna say just get over it, or move on, or just deal. You have a reason and a right to feel the way you do! I am not disabled like you. So I can’t say anything. But I have had my problems too. Things that like everybody else has or can do that I simply might not ever. I do know how it can hurt that bad
Then you mentioned like being a favorite person. Everybody wants to be included. It hurts to be left out. That can be the worse. But when this kind of crosses over to using the word favorite that is where things are going wrong.
We like totally understand that you are upset and hurt! That is okay. I would be too. But you should not just think about that. You should think about how you can deal with all of this in a good way. That is what I don’t think you are really doing.
I know that you are right that a therapist might not work or might not be good. But what you need is a good therapist. The right therapist. Not all of them are good. For sure. Maybe you can look for some recommendations from your friends and people online in the disability groups? Maybe that would be a start?
I think it might take some work and time and change. But then good things can come.
Then you mentioned like being a favorite person. Everybody wants to be included. It hurts to be left out. That can be the worse. But when this kind of crosses over to using the word favorite that is where things are going wrong.
We like totally understand that you are upset and hurt! That is okay. I would be too. But you should not just think about that. You should think about how you can deal with all of this in a good way. That is what I don’t think you are really doing.
I know that you are right that a therapist might not work or might not be good. But what you need is a good therapist. The right therapist. Not all of them are good. For sure. Maybe you can look for some recommendations from your friends and people online in the disability groups? Maybe that would be a start?
I think it might take some work and time and change. But then good things can come.