We just returned from AKV - Kidani Village Thursday afternoon. We are OKW/BWV owners, and LOVE the BWV for the same reasons you do. We invited my niece and her family to join us this trip (ages 3 and 5) and I wanted to try a different experience with the kids this trip so we opted for Kidani Village. WE LOVED THIS RESORT!
Our Experience ... We rented a car so the long hallways (people complain about BWV, but we thought Kidani had MUCH longer walks that BWV!) didn't bother us. We wanted to be near the pool area so we had asked for a room near the Rafiki Elevator, we ended up closer to Pumba, but our room was great and still close enough to access the pool area from the Rafiki Elevator.
Pool --- The kids LOVED the pool area. The pool has 0 entry, great for the 3 and 5 year old. The really loved the water play area and we spent a lot of time in this area every day. We thought this was the best pool area for kids that we've seen on property.
Animals ---- Our room was 7852 and we saw lots of different animals (including Giraffes) throughout the day. The Animals migrate around the Sunset Savanna to find their food sources that are replenished twice a day. We were on the 4th floor and I wish our request for a lower floor had been granted....on the 4th floor it's difficult to see below the tree tops, so we had to wait for the animals to come out of the trees to the feeding areas. We noticed the difference when stopping at the viewing areas off the main lobby.
Transportation ... Having a car we normally drove to the parks, but we did take a bus to Epcot one day. From our room location it's a fair hike to the bus stops. If the bus transportation is important you may want to consider requesting a room by the north elevator or Zazu elevator. The bus to epcot arrived within a couple of minutes of getting to the bus stop and it was also quick to arrive when leaving Epcot.
Dining ... We found the best kept dining secret at Kidani ... Sanaa is EXCELLENT ...and we will be adding to every trip! If you are a plain eater, I wouldn't recommend, but if you like to try new things, the food here is great! We also walked over to Jambo House a couple of times for Breakfast. Boma's (excellent) and Maura (don't waste your money!) We watched the kids one evening while my niece and her husband went to Jikos and they had a great meal there too.
Room ... We stayed in a dedicated 2 bedroom (7852) and had plenty of room for the 6 of us. the wireless internet speed was good and we had no problems accessing
MDE to switch fast passes, dining etc. from our room. We thought the living room area was larger than BWV, but don't know if that's a fact or not. The living room couch (sleeper) was one of the most comfortable we've sat on from the DVC resorts! Loved the huge walk in shower in the master bath.
So, after all this rambling I would not hesitate to try AKV. Yes, it is remote, but it is a beautiful resort, and having the animals and great pool area for the kids were major pluses.
good luck with your decision and enjoy your trip!
Peggy Sue