I just found it a truly foreign concept.
This is how I took it, and I thought, as dh always reminds me when we get together with family and I start to compare my nieces and nephews to ds, "that its all relative".
I just found it a truly foreign concept.
ps: If not being clear in what I meant really hurt someone, I'm truly sorry. Hopefully I've clarified my intentions now. I would rather unite those of us in Holland than divide.