I was feel like you, but my husband LOVED to take 3 week long vacations because he felt like he truly got out of the day to day slog by taking it all at once. A lot of our trips involved spending some time with family so that minimized some of the expense.Never been away from home on vacation more than 10 days. Hoping to expand on that in retirement. 10 days was fine, issue was, never had more than 4 weeks vacation when I was working. We preferred if possible to take a week of vacation every 3 months to get a break......as my wife put it......wo we did not "kill someone at work".