I have not read through this thread yet, but I am going to guess by the fact I have more than 1 PM and it has 5 pages it should be closed.
I am going to encourage the OP to create this post again if he wishes. I do want to remind people, that no DIS rules were broken by this person.
Personal opinons aside, if you dont trust a person, then dont trade with them. Personal attacks are not permitted any where on the DIS and we all need to abide by those rules.
Game over.
ETA: If this person decides to create another thread, I expect all rules of our boards and trades will be followed.