It is very difficult!
I work at an Alzheimer's facility. We ocassionally have spouses that move in to be with their loved ones. Right now, I am only working every other weekend because of the baby. I just saw in the paper this morning that one of our residents died. Her funeral is Saturday morning. I have known this couple for over 2 years. Now I have to go to work on Saturday and see the husband, unless he decides to stay with family tomorrow night.
I am so dreading this!