We’ve never had passes either, but have no desire to stop going. I went twice when I was younger, once in elementary school and once in high school.
As an adult, I’ve gone in 2014, 16, 18, and 22. I can’t wait to go back in 2024. Yeah it’s expensive, crowded, and things are changing, but I had just as much fun as ever. I don’t like paying for LL, but I like the system better than FP. I hated planning my days months in advance. Things aren’t perfect by any stretch, but it’s still an amazing vacation.
In all honestly, all those trips have cost me just about the same. Ive cut some things out, but have still had the same fun. I’ve driven instead of flown (which really helps in having breakfast/snack food and drinks to cut a big expense of morning breakfast and evening drinks whether it be alcoholic or just water). Did split stays or mods instead of deluxe. Done less table service and done quick service. I know people hate having to make changes, but prices are going to go up and you’ll have to account for that.
As far as pricing, I think most trips have gone up drastically. We go to the beach yearly (outer banks). We always would be able to get an oceanfront house with a pool and hot tub for around $1000 in may and September in the early 2010s. Now you’d be lucky to get a house a few rows back from oceanfront with no pool or hot tub for that price. I’ve noticed for the most part the prices have gone up anywhere from double to 3/4x as much in the last 10ish years.
Rental cars are ridiculous, as well as airfare. Amusement park prices are going up. Sporting event prices are going up. I used to be able to get pirates (baseball) tickets for $9 a handful of years ago, now the cheapest is 20 and they haven’t improved. Resorts I do think at Disney have went up more than other hotels.
It is what it is. Yeah, Disney is nickel and diming everybody, but so is every other company in the world.