I have yet to rent and might easily have followed a similar path under similar circumstances as these are by the nature of the rules private matters between the owner and the renter no 3rd party oversight is involved.
I am not certain how I would have reacted but shame would likely have been my largest reaction and I am uncertain I could have lived my problem out in such an open and forthright manner.
Dani thanks and pixie dust to you forever
Stacey I am glad your outcome was good and financial resolution was reached.
The entire "cast" of supporting characters in this real life drama amaze me and I am humbled by the restraint and reserve shown by one and all during the entirety of the events.
I only recently started focusing on retirement vacation planning and considering my options re DVC as a component in that mix. Renting at 1st blush looked fast, easy and simple but I am certain fast & easy is not how it will work for me now. I after reading the thread am still willing to be a renter but will now definitely be using renting the same way I would owning i.e. only where a long lead time exists and the owner and I have the chance to mutually resolve the method of the transaction and answer questions and concerns ... renting is not a method I would consider for short term or relatively impulsive trips any longer as the easy and fast paths required for short notice rentals are where the scammers if they are here can hide i.e no time to get a ressie confimed before payment is sent etc because there is insufficient lead time before the ressie dates.
There is no reason in my circumstances to play in that arena IMHO the possible savings are far outwieghed by the potential problems and the doubts I would have about the whole thing would steal the majic from my trip. (By this I mean sometimes it appears renting can save 50% over a deluxe hotel stay but I could just stay at a mod or value or offsite or the Swan on points or something and avoid the quick turn around payment required immediately no time to think / verify before making payment or before asking the owner to take an irrevesible action scenarios)
All that said I can still forsee an owner needing to rent at times because of a shortage of points after banking and borrowing for all of a trip or to get in a second trip after using points and having had the 1 transfer for the year occurr to book the 1st trip.
Obviously any non-owner (my current status) looking for the DVC experience and trying to save money has only the rental option unless they can get themselves designated by some owner as the lucky unworthy relatives of the year
. I just won't ever think of it as something easy and fast (unless maybe it was a repeat rental situation with someone).
References and contract signings even with overnight US mail, faxes and emails as the delivery methods take more time than the easy and fast route it all looked like to me a few weeks ago (i.e. days and weeks of time elapsing not minutes and hours).
Again thanks to all involved for posting to this thread and thanks to DOC for making it very hard for a new R/T thread browser to ignore it.