DH and I have a combination of retirement incomes coming our way. 401K's, investments, pensions, ss all which currently come close to about 80% of our current income. I'm working 3 more years and DH plans to work 5-7 more. I'm 57 and DH is 60. We will have about 2 million in investments plus our pensions at that time (his is from 9 years working for one co, plus his US Navy retirement and mine will be for 26 years as a Federal employee) plus ss. Most of the rest is from our 401K's. But, we live in a high cost of living area. We do plan to downsize our home in a year or two but we'll still have a mortgage. Our two DS are grown (31 and 33) so we're well past college. We're in very good shape for retirement. DH is a retired Navy reservist and besides his retirement pay, we have access to Tricare which takes care of our health insurance needs. If you had told me 30 years ago that we would be in this situation, I wouldn't have believed it. We were month to month, living in a townhouse with a mortgage we could barely afford with two small children. DH was a drilling navy reserve officer and that income helped tremendously. He stuck it out for 30 years and retired as an O-6.
What amazes me is I, personally, have more saved in my 401K than the average american and I went back to work after 14 years at home with our boys and I work part time (32 hours/week). Not everyone plans for retirement. We do have some debt, but DH was just offered a job that pays 18% more than his current one (he's a Federal gov contractor) and we'll pay off all debt besides our mortgage in 1 year or less.
Our two DS (31 and 33) both have more saved in 401K's than the average american. They also work with our financial planner. He is more than worth what he is paid (percentage of our accounts) and makes more the more we make. A good certified financial planner can make a huge difference and help you figure out what you can and can't do and when.