If a pin has the copyright symbol on the back, with the word "Disney" stamped on it, it is tradeable.
What would the CM do? Trade it to other guests. Recycle it. Who knows?
Lanyards are pretty inexpensive - I want to say that they're in the $6 - $12 range. You don't have to have one before you go, and they're easy to find in WDW. The big pin stand under the Hat in Hollywood Studios, the big Pin Center in Epcot, and the Pin Traders in DTD offer great lanyard selections - but almost every pin cart you find will have at least one.
It's fairly rare for guests to out and out ask you to trade. Usually, they are just like you - shy and a bit unsure. More often, they will just ask to see your pins. This is your cue to offer to trade; of course, it's up to the two of you to work one out. Other guests will be like you, and want to get something "good" in exchange for giving away something "good", whereas a CM will trade you any pin for any pin (as long as they don't already have the one you're trying to give them).
CMs are the best place to learn to not be shy - once you get used to asking to see their pins, its easier to talk to other guests. Remember that if someone is wearing a lanyard of pins, they are probably quite happy to show them off to you, even if they don't want to trade... just like you will probably be proud of your own pins, and want to show them to people.
Have fun! Feel free to ask any questions here or to PM me.
No prob! I love pin trading - as does my whole family. I'm happy to get someone else hooked.
All you do is approach a cast member who has a lanyard or a pin card hooked to their belt. Politely ask them to see their pins, and they will gladly show them to you.
Note that common courtesy is in play - if they are checking out customers, you should let them do their job. In this case, I will get into line.
If you see a pin that you like, simply ask them if they will trade with you (the answer is yes 100% of the time)... heck, they will frequently ask you if you see something that you'd like to trade for.
The only exception is that some CMs have a different colored lanyard (it used to be green, I understand that the color has changed?). This designates them as available only to children.
That's exactly what to do.Thanks!!
I have one more question. How do I approach a CM. Should I just ask to see their pins or what?
Feedback really isn't that reliable as many people do not know they are getting scrappers in their lots. I myself gave very positive feedback to some sellers who I know now are selling scrappers. There is a huge thread a little ways down that gives some names of sellers that some of us have dealt with and believe to be honest/legit sellers. Check it out!
I'm also in contact with my seller, who is offering to cancel my transaction 'if I still feel uncomfortable'... Ugh, I can't in conscience accept and trade counterfeits!
Update: I last asked my seller to take a photo of the exact lot of pins I'd be getting so I could check them against pinpics. This morning, without word, the seller refunded my payment.
I'm guessing he/she knows their pins are fake. Bummer, too, since I wasted an e-bay coupon.