Thank guys I am just so emotional done. And I feel like I failed in my marriage and I hate doing that.
A lot of people say get a attorney but I feel like if I do I'm being mean and playing hard ball.
The lady for the marriage counselor said I just need to end it but for the love of God I can't.... No matter how bad she hurts me I can't do it in return.
Also the counselor told me she's on a power trip and will use that against me that's just sad real sad.
Ron
Get a lawyer, she will believe me. When someone says that want half of everything, it isn't just the good stuff, the debt that was jointly incurred, be it a business or otherwise, is also shared. It's not a free ride for someone to get half. It's half of everything... the good and the bad.Me and my wife of 28 years have been separated for well over 8 months I asked her to go to marriage counselor and we did for like 20 weeks as we went things did get better a little at lest we could talk and work together.
Well she just stopped going and dose not want to go back says all we do its talk about old problems hmm that's what it's for right??
Seems like it's back to the old thing again can't agree on stuff and I'm told I'll never find anyone in a million years. The hard part is we own a business together and it's hard. She told me a few days before Christmas she wants half of every thing.
I'm ok with that we have worked hard together and she dose deserve it. But I said we need to come to the table with what we owe and what we have and go from there wow did I get a talking too. About how wrong I am and only money hungry and that's far from the truth.
I believe in the lord so much and few pastor are praying for us both but it just seems that God is not listening. I go to church every Sunday it's just getting hard to keep pushing forward. One of my older daughters over 25 will not even talk to me and its killing me
From the inside out.
I know my problem is small compared to other stuff going on in this world but it's beating me down.
I just wish the lord would just at lest show me why I'm going through this and the meaning of it all.
I feel so lonely and such a empty soul.
And then being told how bad I am and will never love or be loved kills me.
I have been wanting to go to Disney I have AP and only live like 75 miles from the main gate just can't get the energy to go to my favorite place.
This has been a rough Christmas for me just me and my dogs and work.
I'll stop now thanks for listening
And sorry if I went on to much.
Ron