We were at the GF in a garden view room and only paid $199 a night with an AP rate. That was 2 years ago, I think. Anyway keep your eyes open a few months before your trip, you could come across a good rate with a code or AP. Remember you only need 1 adult AP to secure an AP rate, the ressie and AP have to be the same name.
Now to answer your question. We loved the GF. It was myself, DH and our then 3yo DD. We had a nice room that looked directly at Narcosees(Sp?). We were very close to the boat launch for the MK. We were treated so nicely. We did not find it to be "stuffy". When we arrived we were taken around on a tour of the resort in a golf cart on the way to our room. The Bellman walked in our room, showed us where everything was and checked out the room to make sure it was o.k. He waited for us to take a look around to make sure we thought it was o.k. and then left. When we went to our patio, the chairs were dirty. We called housekeeping and just requested some windex or something we could use to clean the chairs. Well, almost 10 min. later a gentleman came in, not only did he make those chairs shine LOL
he moped the floor, cleaned the table, railings and sliding doors. We couildn't believe it and offered to help, but he wouldn't let us.
We got service like that the whole trip.
Also, one night we were coming off the bus and DD was asleep in my arms, then a Bellhop came over to me with a golf cart and offered to drive me back to my room! Of course I took him up on his offer
They also did this for us when we needed to get to our car which was parked in their lot, it is quite a walk from the lobby to the lot, especially with a 3yo.
The resort itself is so beautiful. There is nothing like the feeling you get when you pull up and they say"welcome to the GF"!!!
Like you, I have to plan all aspects of my trip myself. So, I also make my own PS's. I would just suggest not making too many requests on your ressie, that seems to be the root of most of the problems people have that are regular guests, not concierge. We are going back and can't wait! Hope you have a wonderful time planning and wonderful vacation at the Grand.
Also wanted to add, DH and I also hate the look of the Cont.