AnnaS
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jul 7, 2001
I could not find the right words and still can't. It's been a tough few years for us in my family medically. The past 5 months have been surreal.
It all started with my dh 3 1/2 years ago with his heart problems (heart attacks, surgeries, etc.). Thank God he is still with us. Then his brother's melanoma had come back/spread and passed away at 47 a year ago this Feb. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. My dad was diagnosed a year later with lung cancer and two months after that the same sister with stage 4 lung cancer. She did not make it one year (diagnosed 4/2010). While we were taking care of all three of them, my mom barely finished her treatments and she needed emergency surgery. She had a quadruple bypass, one heart valve replaced and one repaired. My parent's home was like a hospital these past 5 months. We have literally been there taking turns so we could be there 24/7 with them since November 1st.
My sister was our rock, our foundation, a second mom to us and all her nieces and nephews. We just lost my dad two months ago and now my sister. It has been too much to handle and it all seems like a nightmare.
I don't know how we did it and did not fall apart. We have been on the brink of a nervous breakdown. I believe God has given us the strength to get us through this and we pray that my sister is now resting and at peace with my dad.
Just needed to let it out after this unbelievable day.
It all started with my dh 3 1/2 years ago with his heart problems (heart attacks, surgeries, etc.). Thank God he is still with us. Then his brother's melanoma had come back/spread and passed away at 47 a year ago this Feb. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. My dad was diagnosed a year later with lung cancer and two months after that the same sister with stage 4 lung cancer. She did not make it one year (diagnosed 4/2010). While we were taking care of all three of them, my mom barely finished her treatments and she needed emergency surgery. She had a quadruple bypass, one heart valve replaced and one repaired. My parent's home was like a hospital these past 5 months. We have literally been there taking turns so we could be there 24/7 with them since November 1st.
My sister was our rock, our foundation, a second mom to us and all her nieces and nephews. We just lost my dad two months ago and now my sister. It has been too much to handle and it all seems like a nightmare.
I don't know how we did it and did not fall apart. We have been on the brink of a nervous breakdown. I believe God has given us the strength to get us through this and we pray that my sister is now resting and at peace with my dad.
Just needed to let it out after this unbelievable day.