We were supposed to go last year for my daughter's HS graduation and rescheduled for this coming May. None of those things on the list is a deal breaker for us. We did the Luau last time, plus there are other Luaus on the Island going on. My "baby" is almost 19 so Auntie's is not even relevant to us. The Spa would have been nice, but it's not like the only spa on the planet is at Aulani. We are long past the point of doing meet and greets since we have "met" them all numerous times. We look at our trip as a vacation in Hawaii with Aulani being the resort that we stay at. I use DVC points so it's not an issue of spending money. We are planning on staying 16 nights at Aulani and another 5 nights in Waikiki. We will have a car and will be exploring the Island and plan on eating at as many local places as possible so not having Ama Ama is also another non-issue for us. Everyone needs to decide for themselves what they want out of a vacation. We are people that have the mentality of enjoying ourselves no matter what comes our way and look to what we can do and not what we can't. You can always find what's not there if you are looking for it. Also, why would I care about someone else's wedding anyway? It's not like we go to watch other people get married. That is weird to me.