Anyone else feel that there's an enormous difference in quality
between the following two types of vacations:
1. On-site stay (prefarably at deluxe or at least moderate level). Parks from RD to about 1 pm-ish. Resort/pool from about 1 pm-sh to about 5 pm-ish. Dining is mostly table service (and preferably at the signature level for most dinners).
2. Off-site stay. Parks are typically done commando style (RD to closing). Dining is mostly counter service, brown bag, or off-site.
To me, there's just no comparision between these two types of vacations and
I continually tell people who have only experienced the second type that they don't know what they're missing.
That being said, I realize that there are two huge caveats here:
1. The first type of vacation tends to be substantially more expensive than the second type (especially, if you don't own or rent DVC and have a large family). Many people just can't justify that expense.
2. Different strokes for different folks. Some people just love the parks and would honestly rather spend the whole day in them (as opposed to going back to a hotel in the afternoon).
I also think that some people err toward commando style because they feel that they need to get their "money's worth" out of those expensive tickets (and, as alluded to above, getting your "money's worth" is subjective).
People also often understandably err toward staying off-site for a number of reasons, particularly more lodging for the buck (and the larger the group size, the more this tends to be true), especially if they're planning to visit more than just Disney on their vacation.
But, having experienced the second type of vacation growing up and having experienced the first type of vacation in recent years, for me, the first type of vacation just blows the second type out of the water. In fact, I'd probably never go to WDW again if limited only to the second type of vacation.
First I'll say my mantra which is in my signature ...
"There is no right way or wrong way to do Disney, just what is right for you!"
Second I'll say I have been staying ON site and OFF site since 1970, with onsite being somewhere in the 130+ stays. And I do not agree with your assessment.
I especially disagree with your statement that it is an err ... "mistake or doing it wrong" if one stays offsite. Personally, having experienced both, I would never give up going to Disney World just because I couldn't stay onsite .... that makes no sense. Actually have had some great offsite stays, and some disappointing onsite stays.
Playing devils advocate thoughts -
- Some people thoroughly enjoy having lots of space, not crammed in beds, having multiple bathrooms, having a kitchen, laundry and better yet some of these places come with private pools they don't have to share with hundreds of other folks.
- Some people embrace getting a real legit deluxe hotel and hotel room ... and for less money.
- Some people want to be in a large resort with great pools, lots of kids activities, live music, bars & restaurants that are not grossly ovepriced ... all for less money than a Disney value resort.
- Some folks enjoy Universal, SeaWorld, Discovery Cove and other attractions that are easy to get to when not staying on Disney property ... and more affordable when not paying Disney's inflated hotel rates.
- Some folks enjoy prompt and responsive housekeeping, ones who honor Do Not Disturb signs and have no issue delaying housekeeping.
- Some folks like to drive to parks and not ride packed buses especially at the end of the day when there are smelly & cranky folks.
- Some folks like saving enough money to do Disney more times.
- Some folks don't care about EMH and know how to work the FP+ system so they don't miss out on anything.
There just isn't anything Disney offers that can counter what I can pay for something much nicer offsite .... but I still stay at Disney for some trips because that is what works for that trip. Every trip for me is different, just like every guest group is different ........... some only stay onsite, some only stay offsite, some like us do both ............ I would never tell someone their way is wrong.