QueenIsabella
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jan 17, 2016
Yup, we experienced this when my MIL passed. She was still working, was 64 and had not started making withdrawals from her IRA. My wife's only legal option was to withdraw the money, and pay income
taxes on it. The taxes literally were 50% of the balance.
My mom, on the other hand, retired at 62, and waited until age 70 1/2 when she was required to take minimum distributions. But back then, you were allowed to average YOUR live expectancy with your BENEFICIARY'S life expectancy to reduce the minimum distribution. I don't think you can do that anymore. So when she passed away at age 90, 5 years ago, I had the option of cashing in the IRA and paying taxes on it, or continuing the distributions she has been getting. Those distributions are taxable, but I continued them, and that is the money we use to pay our long term care insurance premiums every year. Thanks mom for the monetary gift that I will continue to get for the rest of my life. And if I have a financial emergency, I can still opt to pay the taxes and case it in. But the investments I have had that IRA in for the past 5 years earning more than the minimum distribution, so I get the money, and the balance continues to grow.
Yeah, I think the rules have changed. Last year, MIL died suddenly--tough to say "unexpectedly", at 86, every day's a gift. But she hadn't taken her 2017 RMDs, so the estate took them, at her rate, which was ~1/6 of the balance. Then for 2018, the IRAs were split, half for DH, half for his brother, and DH's RMDs were based on his life expectancy. He's 55, so it was ~1/30th of the balances. I think the expected time for growth to equal withdrawal rate is about age 75 or so, so we have (hopefully) a couple good decades of growth, and of course, we have our own IRAs, as well. The estate isn't fully settled yet, so we're not doing much of anything, financially, until it is. My biggest issue is, there are SO MANY accounts all over the place, and that will only get worse when one of us dies, so I'd like to consolidate MIL's IRAs into one. MIL was very financially savvy, I know she believed she put the breadcrumbs close together, but the estate stuff has been fairly complicated. I hope to make things easier for my kids when we pass.