I'm hoping you can offer some feedback as parents of children with disabilities.... and as someone living with a disability.
My DS8 has been given several opportunities the last two summers to attend summer camp hosted by the Texas Lions Camp.
This camp is specifically for individuals who have an orthopedic impairment. It goes without saying that the Texas Lions do an awesome job of ensuring the highest level of professionalism and training.
With that being said, I still can not send my DS even though he has expressed an interest in going.
Here's my problem.
DS is at an age where I feel he is very vulnerable and naive. Unlike when he was younger and had no interest in venturing off without me to a playdate... he now want to go to friends houses for the day.....or a "drop-off" birthday party. The problem is.... he needs a lot of physical assistance..... especially in the bathroom.
I've had the "talk" with him. Good touches vs. Bad touches. But, how am I supposed to reasonably explain this to him???
How am I supposed to say to him, "Only Mommy, Daddy and your doctors are allowed to touch you there."..... but then try to explain to him that it was okay for Billy's mom to clean him? Or a substitute at school?? Or a worker at church??? Or a camp counselor????
How do I draw the line at a "good touch" or "bad touch" when he has so many people who impede on his privacy???
I want him to be as independent as possible, but for safety reasons it's not practical.
I'm open to suggestions.
My DS8 has been given several opportunities the last two summers to attend summer camp hosted by the Texas Lions Camp.
This camp is specifically for individuals who have an orthopedic impairment. It goes without saying that the Texas Lions do an awesome job of ensuring the highest level of professionalism and training.
With that being said, I still can not send my DS even though he has expressed an interest in going.
Here's my problem.
DS is at an age where I feel he is very vulnerable and naive. Unlike when he was younger and had no interest in venturing off without me to a playdate... he now want to go to friends houses for the day.....or a "drop-off" birthday party. The problem is.... he needs a lot of physical assistance..... especially in the bathroom.
I've had the "talk" with him. Good touches vs. Bad touches. But, how am I supposed to reasonably explain this to him???
How am I supposed to say to him, "Only Mommy, Daddy and your doctors are allowed to touch you there."..... but then try to explain to him that it was okay for Billy's mom to clean him? Or a substitute at school?? Or a worker at church??? Or a camp counselor????
How do I draw the line at a "good touch" or "bad touch" when he has so many people who impede on his privacy???
I want him to be as independent as possible, but for safety reasons it's not practical.
I'm open to suggestions.