is a baby who is not loved.
I am attending in our hospital's newborn nursery this month. Last week, a pair of "sisters-in-law" from Chicago rolled into the delivery suite, each ready to pop out a baby. Seems they came to Iowa to deliver because they heard the welfare was better here than in Chicago. They were both, oh, about 24 and each had had about 6 or 7 babies already.
Well, after the babies are born, we go to see the moms in their hospital room. There is a party going on, with probably 12 or 13 family members, TV turned up full volume, laughing, shouting, eating, etc.
Baby in lying in a bassinet, off to the side, sleeping. NO ONE IS PAYING ANY ATTENTION TO THE CHILD.
We examine baby, and ask mom what her name is. She doesn't even look at the infant. "Oh, I dunno. I haven't thought about that."
One of the sisters-in-law is scheduled to have her tubes tied the next day. (The only commendable thing I've seen from this bunch so far!) BUT, she cancels it at the last minute, because she has to be NPO (can't eat for 4 hours prior to the procedure), and she want to eat her breakfast!!! Aftewards, she decides that she will go ahead with the tubal, and wants to get on the OR schedule RIGHT THEN!! When she's told that the surgeons have gone on to the other scheduled cases, she becomes enraged and throws a fit!!
I am amazed, and incredibly saddened, at some people's behavior.
I am attending in our hospital's newborn nursery this month. Last week, a pair of "sisters-in-law" from Chicago rolled into the delivery suite, each ready to pop out a baby. Seems they came to Iowa to deliver because they heard the welfare was better here than in Chicago. They were both, oh, about 24 and each had had about 6 or 7 babies already.
Well, after the babies are born, we go to see the moms in their hospital room. There is a party going on, with probably 12 or 13 family members, TV turned up full volume, laughing, shouting, eating, etc.
Baby in lying in a bassinet, off to the side, sleeping. NO ONE IS PAYING ANY ATTENTION TO THE CHILD.
We examine baby, and ask mom what her name is. She doesn't even look at the infant. "Oh, I dunno. I haven't thought about that."
One of the sisters-in-law is scheduled to have her tubes tied the next day. (The only commendable thing I've seen from this bunch so far!) BUT, she cancels it at the last minute, because she has to be NPO (can't eat for 4 hours prior to the procedure), and she want to eat her breakfast!!! Aftewards, she decides that she will go ahead with the tubal, and wants to get on the OR schedule RIGHT THEN!! When she's told that the surgeons have gone on to the other scheduled cases, she becomes enraged and throws a fit!!
I am amazed, and incredibly saddened, at some people's behavior.