I really need support- please pray for my daughter

[moeg]

I just created a new profile. I've been a member for years but I need to protect my privacy.

My 16 year old daughter has an eating disorder. She also has depression and anxiety, and I suspect OCD. We found out about it in April. When she told me about it, she said it had been going on since December.

I've been taking her to a nutritionist, a psychiatrist and her pediatrician since April. I believed she was getting better. She made it seem like she was. Then this morning she went for her yearly physical at the doctor and tearfully confessed that she has been making herself throw up 5x a day. She has been telling everyone what we wanted to hear. I had so much hope, but she is worse than before.

To say I'm upset is an understatement. I'm distraught and I need someone to tell me that this can get better. She's going to see an eating disorder specialist tomorrow and they may put her in an in treatment center. We have told no one about this but that may have to change.

I'm just devastated that my beautiful girl is going through this. She's a wonderful girl. So caring, thoughtful, appreciative, sweet. She's an absolute joy. I wish she could see herself through my eyes.

Thanks for any advice or encouragement you can give me. I really need it.

 

[lynxstch]

All I have to share with you are prayers and blessings. Eating disorders can be hard on everyone. God bless you and your family, and extra prayers for your daughter. Hopefully a treatment center can help her out.

 

[Disneylover99]

Prayers sent!

The important thing, is that your daughter has admitted she has a problem. That's huge! At least she doesn't seem to be in denial about it. It sounds like you're doing lots to support her right now. Awesome! Hang in there.

 

[pryncess527]

This CAN get better. It may be a long hard road, but there is hope at the end.

I had two very dear friends battle eating disorders when we were in high school. One of them got so unhealthy, her parents had to put her in an in-patient facility for 3 months. She was throwing up in plastic bags and hiding it in her closet to avoid detection. The other just got out patient treatment.

Today they are both beautiful, healthy women who have given birth to beautiful healthy children.

I don't have any advice for getting through this, but I just wanted to let you know I've seen people seriously struggle with this and come out the other side strong, healthy adults. It can be done. Your commitment to making sure she gets the care she needs is a huge part of her becoming a success story.

 

[PollyannaMom]

I know someone who recovered from an eating disorder too. There is hope!

 

[moeg]

This CAN get better. It may be a long hard road, but there is hope at the end.

I had two very dear friends battle eating disorders when we were in high school. One of them got so unhealthy, her parents had to put her in an in-patient facility for 3 months. She was throwing up in plastic bags and hiding it in her closet to avoid detection. The other just got out patient treatment.

Today they are both beautiful, healthy women who have given birth to beautiful healthy children.

I don't have any advice for getting through this, but I just wanted to let you know I've seen people seriously struggle with this and come out the other side strong, healthy adults. It can be done. Your commitment to making sure she gets the care she needs is a huge part of her becoming a success story.

Your bolded words made the tears spill over. That's exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you, thank you.

 

[Soldier's*Sweeties]

*hugs

 

[Poohforyou]

I'm so sorry. The fact that she's admitting she has a problem and needs help is a big plus. As with any disease there will be steps forward and back. Just continue to love and support her. That may include tough love. Lean on the experts to guide you. Good luck to all of you.

 

[cabanafrau]

Thoughts and prayers for your daughter and your family.

 

[mom2rtk]

I'm so sorry.

 

[clutter]

I'm so sorry. Its a tough road.

 

[Hikergirl]

There is hope.
I have a family member with an eating disorder and I have seen how hard it can be for them to get on the right path, but it can be done. There will be times where your dd doesn't make progress, and she will need all your support. It will be a tough road, but she can make it through with professional help, and love and support from you.

 

[Elleshoodat]

I am so sorry and don't have any words of wisdom or personal stories to share, but please know that I am praying for you and your daughter.

 

[Micca]

I have zero experience with this, but it sounds like you've caught this sooner rather than later. That's gotta be a big advantage in treating all this stuff. You'll likely have a team of physicians and therapists working on this. Get 'em all the same page with regard to treatment and she'll come out of this. Try to hang in there.

 

[NFLDERS]

I am so sorry and don't have any words of wisdom or personal stories to share, but please know that I am praying for you and your daughter.

^This.

 

[dosekies]

I'm very sorry you guys are going through this. While I have never suffered from an eating disorder, I do have severe depression and anxiety. All I can say is THANK YOU for supporting her and talking to her about it. My mom was not supportive at all when I told her about my diagnoses which made it even worse. A few years later now, I can finally acknowledge it around her and know she is taking me seriously. It really means a lot to us to have our parent's support. I hope all goes well for you both.

 

[moeg]

I'm very sorry you guys are going through this. While I have never suffered from an eating disorder, I do have severe depression and anxiety. All I can say is THANK YOU for supporting her and talking to her about it. My mom was not supportive at all when I told her about my diagnoses which made it even worse. A few years later now, I can finally acknowledge it around her and know she is taking me seriously. It really means a lot to us to have our parent's support. I hope all goes well for you both.

Thank you so much. I'm so sorry you didn't get the support you needed. I will say a prayer for you. I hope you're doing well now.

 

[katie01]

I am so sorry. I teared up just reading that, I can only imagine how scary this is and how much your heart is hurting. I will pray for your strength and your DD's complete recovery, many hugs to you

 

[sk!mom]

I just created a new profile. I've been a member for years but I need to protect my privacy.

My 16 year old daughter has an eating disorder. She also has depression and anxiety, and I suspect OCD. We found out about it in April. When she told me about it, she said it had been going on since December.

I've been taking her to a nutritionist, a psychiatrist and her pediatrician since April. I believed she was getting better. She made it seem like she was. Then this morning she went for her yearly physical at the doctor and tearfully confessed that she has been making herself throw up 5x a day. She has been telling everyone what we wanted to hear. I had so much hope, but she is worse than before.

To say I'm upset is an understatement. I'm distraught and I need someone to tell me that this can get better. She's going to see an eating disorder specialist tomorrow and they may put her in an in treatment center. We have told no one about this but that may have to change.

I'm just devastated that my beautiful girl is going through this. She's a wonderful girl. So caring, thoughtful, appreciative, sweet. She's an absolute joy. I wish she could see herself through my eyes.

Thanks for any advice or encouragement you can give me. I really need it.

I'm so sorry! It sounds like you are doing everything that you can. You have my prayers.

The bolding is mine. I would encourage you to share this burden with those close to you. You need their support. Your DD might also benefit from caring supportive friends and family. While privacy if fine, please know that there is no shame in needing and seeking help and no need to keep it secret.

Hang in there mom. Sending positive thoughts your way.

 

[amberpi]

She can get better. I'm sending you the BEST!