Thanks everyone. I have been driving myself crazy with all of this, do we go up to Trenton (30 minutes), PHL, which airline, fees, etc. Trenton didnt seem to have times that were convenient for this first trip to MCO. For this first time, we decided to go American and do more research and watch fares for the future. When we looked at the fact we would need to pay for carry on, it wasn't that far off of American....we were comfortable enough with the cost of American.
One reason we also were comfortable with American is the availability of planes, should a maintenance issue happen. We were coming home for Jamaica a few weeks ago, American, had a maintenance issue and no extra planes. Had to spend an extra night in Jamaica. With this being a quick getaway, we were a bit nervous of being on Frontier and no extra planes. Thinking that with PHL being a hub for American and MCO being a big and popular airport, we may have a better shot of not being in that situation again.
This is the first time we are not checking luggage and thinking we wouldn't be paying that fee, then seeing we'd be paying even carry on fees.
This is all getting too complicated and too much to figure out. LOL.
Good thought about BWI.