Parks dress code?

I have never seen "intimate bits" at the parks.
Well I have and it wasn't pretty! This was back in the 90's and we were sitting down waiting for the afternoon parade. After glancing across Main St. we noticed a "gentleman" airing his "personal" belongings out in the breeze. :rolleyes1
 
I absolutely agree with your 2nd statement there. Which is why I tried to clarify that I was speaking only of words, not actions or trying to get others to believe the same thing. But I stand by the words only hurt if you let them. Same as what someone else is wearing can only bother you if you let it. You can only control you and your reactions to others. If you can choose to be offended or not by what someone is wearing, can you not also choose if something someone calls you offends you? like "In order to hurt my feelings, I must first value your opinion". I saw that somewhere not to long ago and it kind of stuck with me.

I don't disagree with you, just pointing out that its odd that society can say you shouldn't be offended by what anyone wears, but we need to be careful about what we say, lest we offend someone. We should not judge people based on what they wear, but it's ok to judge someone because they cuss? Because how many times have we seen posts here or on fb complaining about people cursing and how it shows a lack of intellegence? Or a person's hair or tattoos is not a reflection of a persons ability to do a job, but judge those who dress in long skirts and long hair as being in a cult?

I really like this, makes so much sense to me. There's no reason to get offended by anything anyone on these boards says in response to anything you post because in reality what does it really matter what that person thinks? They have no real baring on your life. Thanks for posting this.
 
For me, "objectionable tattoos" is a redundancy. You want to have them? Go for it.
I think that this means tattoos with strong profanity, or graphic representations of the other things that you are not supposed to be exposing. Having them is OK if that floats your boat; WDW just wants them covered when you're in one of their parks.
 
And did you...
A) Notify a CM
B) Avoid looking in that direction
C) Yell at the guy

B for sure. I mean... how do you go to a CM and explain that one 🤷‍♂️ ? And I wasn't going to yell at the guy because it seemed like he may not have had any clue -as impossible as that seems.
 
I really like this, makes so much sense to me. There's no reason to get offended by anything anyone on these boards says in response to anything you post because in reality what does it really matter what that person thinks? They have no real baring on your life. Thanks for posting this.
No sense being offended. Everyone has differing opinions. I like to hear opposing views -sometimes it confirms what I believe even stronger, and other times I look at things a way I normally wouldn't have.
 
No sense being offended. Everyone has differing opinions. I like to hear opposing views -sometimes it confirms what I believe even stronger, and other times I look at things a way I normally wouldn't have.
My thoughts and ideas on a subject have been changed many times from discussions on the forum. Some people have a way with words that makes you think about things in a completely different light. I didn't realize how sheltered my life was until I started venturing out beyond my bubble. It's been great to learn things in a new way. I am with you that there are times it makes you take a look at things and ponder them differently.
 
Okay. Maybe that is what the previous poster meant. To me, that's still considered "covered up". Men wear white/light colored t-shirts all the time so if it counts as fully clothed for them, it should also for women. I also don't really think Disney can enforce a dress code that includes what type of undergarments people need to wear under regular t-shirts.

I have occasionally seen women wearing sheer/mesh tops (not at Disney), but they always have some sort of bra or bikini underneath.
I have seen plenty of men with cut off tank tops, that are very loose and that you can see from one end to the other, exposing their whole chest. It's hot and if I could get away with it, I would wear something like that too and let my girls breath.
 
B for sure. I mean... how do you go to a CM and explain that one 🤷‍♂️ ? And I wasn't going to yell at the guy because it seemed like he may not have had any clue -as impossible as that seems.
I would totally find the nearest cast member and tell them that some guy has his D out. Boobs are one thing, but no need to let that flap around. LOL
 
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I would totally find the nearest cast member and tell them that some guy has his D out. Boobs are one thing, but no need to let that flap around. LOL
Assumption here, but I'm guessing the guy was going commando and the way @GAN was sitting in relation to him, he could see "up" the guys shorts.

That's not excusing they guy, but I highly doubt he "has his D out".
 
I have seen plenty of men with cut off tank tops, that are very loose and that you can see from one end to the other, exposing their whole chest. It's hot and if I could get away with it, I would wear something like that too and let my girls breath.
 
Assumption here, but I'm guessing the guy was going commando and the way @GAN was sitting in relation to him, he could see "up" the guys shorts.

That's not excusing they guy, but I highly doubt he "has his D out".

I saw a guy walking around with no pants at WDW once. It was this guy!

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Be on the lookout!
 
I really like this, makes so much sense to me. There's no reason to get offended by anything anyone on these boards says in response to anything you post because in reality what does it really matter what that person thinks? They have no real baring on your life. Thanks for posting this.
Honestly, I really have pretty much gotten to this point. You (general you, not specifically you) can like me or not, think whatever you want, call me names, whatever. If you are not an important part of my life, your opinion of me does not matter. Why would I care if some random person calls me a name or says I'm ugly or otherwise tries to insult me? Letting it bother you means they win. That was their intent. I will not give someone unimportant the ability to hurt my feelings or offend me. I have too many other things to worry about. Maybe that comes with age lol. I certainly didn't feel that way in my 20's. But in my 40's my give a crap is gone. :rotfl2:

Having said that, I think that boards like this and social media where you may be anon and no one knows who you really are gives people this feeling that they can just say what they want and bully people and that is crap too. It is not that hard to be kind and I don't know why people enjoy being mean.
 
Please note what I marked in red. If a guest is offended by what someone else is wearing, they're free to bring it to the attention of a CM. What happens after that is up to WDW.
I disagree. It shouldn't be the guest's responsibility to uphold/enforce Disneys dress code. Unfortunately CMs (no fault of their own) are no longer trained as they once were. It's a crap shoot at best in many areas as to how situations are handled.
 
Honestly, I really have pretty much gotten to this point. You (general you, not specifically you) can like me or not, think whatever you want, call me names, whatever. If you are not an important part of my life, your opinion of me does not matter. Why would I care if some random person calls me a name or says I'm ugly or otherwise tries to insult me? Letting it bother you means they win. That was their intent. I will not give someone unimportant the ability to hurt my feelings or offend me. I have too many other things to worry about. Maybe that comes with age lol. I certainly didn't feel that way in my 20's. But in my 40's my give a crap is gone. :rotfl2:
Eleanor Roosevelt famously claimed, "What you think of me is none of my business."
 
I disagree. It shouldn't be the guest's responsibility to uphold/enforce Disneys dress code. Unfortunately CMs (no fault of their own) are no longer trained as they once were. It's a crap shoot at best in many areas as to how situations are handled.
I don't understand what you disagree with. I said it was up to Disney to decide what to do. I *DO* think if someone thinks an outfit is "out of dress code" AND THEY WANT SOMETHING DONE ABOUT IT, they point it out to a CM. That CM (ie: Disney's representative) then decides whether to uphold/enforce the company dress code, or the clothing doesn't violate the dress code. A guest doesn't get to decide.
 
I don't understand what you disagree with. I said it was up to Disney to decide what to do. I *DO* think if someone thinks an outfit is "out of dress code" AND THEY WANT SOMETHING DONE ABOUT IT, they point it out to a CM. That CM (ie: Disney's representative) then decides whether to uphold/enforce the company dress code, or the clothing doesn't violate the dress code. A guest doesn't get to decide.
I disagree with tattling to a CM. Disney has guidelines and their employees should handle the situation according to protocol.
 

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