My 16yo son is on the spectrum, has extremely difficult time waiting and has a time perception disorder. Basically 15 minutes to him feel like an hour. He also is not a hug fan of being in a mob of people. Quite frankly I am not a huge fan either. Haha.
This is what we did. I reminded him that if he wanted to ride ride this ride this is what we had to do.....even right before bed I talked with him again that tomorrow was going to be a big day and we needed to work together to make it work.
1. The day before repeatedly explained our early morning plan. (Wake-up at 5:30, take Uber to park at 5:50, Arrive at park at 6:00, open tap point at 6:30, get boarding group. ) Prepped him we would need to wait a long time with a lot of people. We planned on him picking a show to watch while we waited.
2. The morning went pretty well. Above plan, though bag check at 6:15 and tap points opened at 6:18 most likely because of weather, we were in the park around 6:36ish and had boarding group 40. My son had headphones on and his phone watching a video. So he had his head down watching a show for most of it, he also was AMAZED at the mass of people and thought it was so cool. This shocked me. He took a bunch of pictures of the "opening day crowds" he called them.
3. Once through and the crowds started to disperse we rode a bunch of rides without any real wait times and only needed to use the
DAS for Smugglers Run later in the day.
We were in one of the groups that just started to get interrogated and then had to be escorted out backstage because of a breakdown, I was not sure how he was going to handle it. Got paper fast pass for later. I think that was the key because my son knew he had a "ticket" to come back. We ended up coming back later to ride.
My son started to get worn out later in the morning from all of the excitement and early wake-up so he ended up going back to the hotel to relax for a bit.
If you have any other questions please let me know
We have been going to Disney with him since he was 18 mo old and this was our 3rd trip this year so we have a bit of experience