Judy - I love your family pic (I think), but you are so very very small . . .
All these baby stories makes me think (and thank) about how easily we've had it. We tried for about 1 1/2 years for DS8. We thought this was odd since we were in our early 20's. We were just about to start messing with fertility mumbo-jumbo when I got pregnant (and of course, had lived in fear of getting pregnant since, well, our late teens
). DS came at the perfectly right time, as my mom died of cancer when I was 5 months pregnant. It was good to have something (someone) else to focus my energy on. Delivery was, shall we say, eventful. I'm not one to go into detail, even with people I know, so let's just leave it at it really messed me up psychologically, and the few people I have told the story to totally get why.
ANYHOOO I swore I would never, ever go through that again, which was a killer because we always wanted 2-3 kids. Especially with all the moving we do, I wanted more than one kid. So I went into total denial & got myself knocked up, figuring I would just have to deal with it. Yeah, this one happened instantly!
DS6 was born & was perfectly fine for 3 days - then started looking like he was having siezures. In the span of an hour, we went from taking our perfectly health baby home from the hospital to being sped across town in an ambulance to a NICU. Turns out Huckleberry had a benign condition that makes perfectly normal babies
look like they are siezures. Of course there is no test for a benign condition, so we spent a week in the NICU while they tested for every scary thing known to medicine. That was the longest week of my life & the reason Ronald McDonald house receives a generous contribution each year! It was a real wake up to be as scared as we were & also realize that we had the healthiest kid there.
Anyway, our few little bumps in the road are nothing compared to what may of you have been through. I am in awe of the strong, determined people I have been chatting with here.